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Emotional Hijacking: How Connecting to Old Hurts Heals Us
October 22, 2015 .
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The key to having freedom and joy in our lives stems directly from managing our emotions rationally and effectively. Practicing emotional intelligence keeps us intimately connected with ... Read More
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How to Tell Your Partner You Have a Crush on Someone Else
October 22, 2015 .
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I recently wrote about pornography use and how it doesn’t necessarily or even usually signify impending doom for a relationship. Some of the responses to the article surprised me—not ... Read More
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Why It’s Good to Hate Your Kids
October 21, 2015 .
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Many years ago, before I had children, I worked with a parent who confided that she would sometimes get so frustrated with her baby that she fantasized about throwing him out the window. ... Read More
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Mindfulness Meditation and Trauma: Proceed with Caution
October 21, 2015 .
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As Roger—not his real name—sensed his body, he began to notice a deep contraction in his heart that pained him deeply. He had been hearing from his meditation teachers that he had to ... Read More
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How to Help an Aging Parent with Depression
October 20, 2015 .
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As the human lifespan grows, many people are now living well into their eighties and nineties. That’s wonderful news, but it comes with new challenges. One of them is the challenge of ... Read More
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5 Good Reasons to Chart Your Mood Changes
October 19, 2015 .
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We all have emotions and moods. Some people have very even temperaments and their moods are mostly stable. Others can go from happy to anxious to depressed to euthymic quite quickly. Everyone ... Read More
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Big T and Little t Trauma and How Your Body Reacts to It
October 19, 2015 .
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Trauma can be defined as an event that falls outside the range of usual human experience that causes distress. Trauma can be either human-made or from natural causes. Examples of human-made ... Read More
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Help! I Feel Like I Don’t Deserve My Husband and He’ll Leave October 16, 2015 . 7 Comments
I think you have quite a bit of insight about your problem: your childhood experiences and past relationships have shaped your worldview in such a way that you don’t trust your current ... Read More
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We Need to Talk about Domestic Violence in Our Communities
October 15, 2015 .
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October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. The more we talk about domestic violence, the more likely it becomes that we build awareness, identify abusive behaviors, and take action to ... Read More
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When You Love Your Kids but Don’t Love Motherhood
October 13, 2015 .
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If you are a mother, you have probably experienced at least one day (if not many) when you wondered if you were cut out for the job of parenting. Mothering is hard work. Even on our best ... Read More
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5 Parenting Secrets for Improving Your Child’s Behavior
October 12, 2015 .
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Being a good parent can be difficult. We are never really taught how to raise children effectively, and generally tend to repeat behaviors we have learned from our own parents. If we grew ... Read More
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A Child Smeared Poop in Our Home; Should I Tell Her Parents? October 9, 2015 . 6 Comments
How upsetting to make such a discovery! It is unusual, developmentally, for an 8-year-old to smear feces on the wall, though I would hesitate to jump to the conclusion of mental health ... Read More