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Help! My Teenage Daughter Hates Me January 29, 2018 . 10 Comments
Dear GoodTherapy.org, My 16-year-old daughter thinks I’m evil. Anytime I try to use discipline, whether it’s asking her to help around the house or do her homework, I get attitude ... Read More
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Yes Brain Parenting: An Interview with Dr. Dan Siegel
January 25, 2018 .
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Editor’s note: Dr. Siegel will be presenting a continuing education web conference for GoodTherapy, titled “Meditation Practice for a Healthier Brain,” at 9 a.m. Pacific on May 10, ... Read More
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How Autism Spectrum Parents Can Benefit from Couples Counseling
January 21, 2018 .
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An autism diagnosis can be challenging for a family. Often, the people affected most are the couple who are parenting the child on the spectrum. When my own son was diagnosed in 2001, my ... Read More
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Why Do So Many Teenagers Struggle to Form Friendships?
January 20, 2018 .
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“I have no friends,” said a recent high school sophomore during an emotional therapy session. She’s not alone—I hear it daily working with adolescent girls. As adults, we often ... Read More
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Why Kids Need to Be Able to Tolerate Uncomfortable Feelings
January 18, 2018 .
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In our first session, Isabel, an agitated newcomer to therapy, declared: “I can’t stand it when Molly is upset about anything. For 16 years, it’s been my job to keep her happy and ... Read More
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Coping with Narcissistic Parental Alienation? Consider These Tips
January 15, 2018 .
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Little research on narcissistic parental alienation exists, and many who have experienced this aspect of narcissism are desperate to find help. This article is written to address the issue ... Read More
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The Importance of Social Skills: Raising a Socially Intelligent Child
January 2, 2018 .
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What are social skills? These are behaviors and other forms of communication necessary to effectively create and maintain relationships. Social skills might include things like initiating ... Read More
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When There Is No Getting Away: The Grief of Sibling Bullying
December 19, 2017 .
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Maybe there is an increase of bullying in our society. Maybe there is an increase in awareness. Either way, it is getting a lot of attention these days. Teachers and parents are sensitized ... Read More
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Just Say No to Saying ‘No’: Better Ways to Improve a Child’s Behavior
November 30, 2017 .
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“[W]hen you’re little, your life is up. The future is up. Everything you want is up. ‘Wait up! Hold up! Shut up! Mom, I’ll clean up! Let me stay up!’ Parents, of course, ... Read More
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What Not to Say When Your Child Comes Out as Transgender
November 17, 2017 .
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In my practice, I work with many people who are transgender. The ages of those I’ve worked with over the years range from 5 (yes, 5) to 65, and the single most common complaint I ... Read More
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12 Secrets to Teaching Your Child How to Manage Their Emotions
November 7, 2017 .
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Giving children coping skills for their emotions is one of the most important tasks of parenting. Children lacking these tools may blame others for how they feel or demonstrate how they’re ... Read More
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Your Children Can’t Give Back the Trust You’ve Lost in Them
October 23, 2017 .
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In my office, I hear angry parents snap in frustration at their kids. “You broke my trust!” “You have to earn my trust back!” “You’ve got to rebuild my trust!” These parents ... Read More