grateful-womanGratitude is an emotion of thankfulness that may be experienced toward a person, animal, or deity. Gratitude can also describe a general feeling of thankfulness for life itself or for good aspects of life.

Examples of Gratitude

Gratitude may be either a fleeting emotion or a long-term feeling that becomes a part of someone’s personality. Gratitude, like some other emotions, can also be faked, such as when children are taught to express delight for things, such as gifts, whether they actually like them or not.

Examples of gratitude include:

  • Feeling grateful for the presence of a significant other or for specific things a person does
  • Thanking a spiritual entity for health, well-being, or other good fortune
  • Being grateful to a pet for making life better or for doing specific tasks such as bringing in the newspaper or obeying a command
  • Feeling thankful for services provided by a company or charity

Gratitude and Mental Health

Gratitude plays a significant role in mental health. People who frequently feel and express gratitude tend to be happier than others, even if their life circumstances are objectively more challenging. People who frequently feel and express gratitude tend to be happier than others, even if their life circumstances are objectively more challenging.Many religions recommend practicing gratitude, and this recommendation may improve members’ mental health. Gratitude can also play a role in both forming and solidifying relationships. Expressing gratitude for gifts, favors, or even just another person’s presence can help increase attachment and encourage closeness. People who do not express gratitude, conversely, are sometimes resented by others.

The Science of Gratitude

Gratitude may be readily dismissed by some as an essential but routine or obvious emotion. However, the importance of gratitude is supported scientifically, by an expanding body of research. According to several recent studies, individuals were shown to have stronger brain structure in the areas of social cognition, empathy, and reward processing after only eight weeks of practicing gratitude. It is believed gratitude may be so helpful because it can help people see how much they matter to others.

Those who practice gratitude regularly report lower blood pressure, stronger immune systems, less loneliness and isolation, and higher levels of positive emotions. In addition, gratitude has been shown to relieve symptoms of stress, depression, and posttraumatic stress. Practicing gratitude also often leads to an improved quality of life and well-being as well as greater relationship satisfaction and commitment.

Ways to Increase Gratitude

There are a number of ways to increase emotions of gratitude. A person could begin to keep a gratitude journal, make it a point to thank someone for something every day, or make an effort to find hope and joy in small gifts and favors. A favor need not be big to spark gratitude, and highly gracious people tend to express plenty of gratitude even for very small things.

Here are some simple strategies you can try to increase your gratitude:

  • Write a list of ten things you are grateful for each day
  • When the opportunity presents itself, ask other people what they are grateful for
  • Incorporate expressions of gratitude into your daily routine; for example, say what you are grateful for before the start of a family dinner
  • When appropriate, post what you are grateful for publicly, perhaps in a tweet or a Facebook post
  • Find a gratitude mantra and repeat it regularly; meditate with a gratitude mantra
  • Send handwritten notes of thanks–in an era of digital communication, taking a moment to write a personalized message and send it via “snail mail” can have extra meaning
  • When facing a difficult or challenging situation, ask yourself, “What can I be grateful for in this situation?”


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Last Updated: 11-30-2015

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  • Mulla M.

    December 22nd, 2018 at 11:38 PM

    Yes gratitude a wonderful therapy. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

  • Yvonna

    February 24th, 2021 at 1:59 PM

    after the loss of my soulmate I’ve been feeling ordinary., down ., difficulty’s to sleep and stay happy. Looking for ways to increase my serotonin., melatonin etc to lift my spirit.

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