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What It Feels Like to Be Stalked (Let Alone Three Times)
January 13, 2017 .
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Stalking. The word alone inspires fear and anxiety in many people. For those of us who have experienced it, it may conjure painful images we never stop seeing, no matter how hard we try. Although ... Read More
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The Arduous Work of Treating Narcissism: A Therapist’s Guide
January 12, 2017 .
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Narcissism is difficult to diagnose and treat. As with all personality issues, the narcissistic traits a person possesses exist on a continuum. Not all people with narcissism are the same, ... Read More
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5 Warning Signs Therapy May Be Hazardous to Your Marriage
January 11, 2017 .
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People who are unhappy in their marriages may turn to mental health professionals for help, unaware therapy could in fact make things worse. I’m not talking about bad couples therapy, ... Read More
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10 Steps to Recovering from a Toxic Trauma Bond
January 10, 2017 .
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Trauma bonds occur in very toxic relationships, and tend to be strengthened by inconsistent positive reinforcement—or at least the hope of something better to come. Trauma bonds occur ... Read More
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No, You Don’t Have to Leave Your Cheating Spouse
January 5, 2017 .
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If infidelity has happened to you (emotional, physical, or both), you don’t have to go running to an attorney right away. Of course, separation or divorce is always an option, both now ... Read More
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How Person-Centered Therapy Can Help Transplant Recipients
January 3, 2017 .
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When a person is in need of an organ transplant, a process referred to in medical circles as a “transplant work-up” begins. This process is lengthy, as it is necessary to make sure ... Read More
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Is It Ever Appropriate to Give or Accept a Gift in Therapy?
December 22, 2016 .
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For better or for worse, the holiday season is associated with the giving and receiving of gifts. Gifts are exchanged between those we are close with, including family members and friends. ... Read More
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Terrified People Pleasers: Why Can’t I Love and Be Loved?
December 21, 2016 .
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People pleasing is a way to reduce anxiety and eliminate stress. Some please to assure good feelings that come with positive responses like being approved of, admired, praised, or respected. ... Read More
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5 Ways to Release Your Anger and Embrace Forgiveness
December 13, 2016 .
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We all experience love in one form or another. We all experience hurt and pain. It’s part of the human condition. Likewise, people can be insensitive sometimes. They say or do things ... Read More
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How to Help Children Grieve the Death of a Parent
December 12, 2016 .
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From the time children are born, they count on their parents to provide a sense of safety as they learn about the complex world around them. When a parent dies, it may create intense emotional ... Read More
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Setting Goals and Developing Treatment Plans in Therapy
December 7, 2016 .
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The purpose of most therapies is to heal, or alleviate, symptoms of a concerning issue or condition. Medical professions create treatment plans that outline the professional’s approach ... Read More
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How ‘Helicopter Parenting’ May Be Helping Your Kids
December 7, 2016 .
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There have been countless articles—including some of my own—about the hazards of so-called “helicopter parenting,” the current trend of over-watchful, over-involved child rearing ... Read More