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How to Avoid the Trap of Arguing by Establishing Bold Intimacy August 1, 2017 . 14 Comments
Author’s note: If you are in a situation where speaking freely about what you think and feel could result in abuse or assault, the recommendations in this article are not for you. To ... Read More
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How Can I Help Your Flooding When I’m Barely Treading Water Myself? July 31, 2017 . 2 Comments
Recently I saw a couple who perfectly illustrated a common quandary. Both individuals lead busy lives. They are doing their best to juggle the everyday demands of life—a particularly ... Read More
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Is It Abuse When My Partner Calls Me Names? July 28, 2017 . 16 Comments
Dear GoodTherapy.org, I don’t think my relationship with my boyfriend is that bad, but some of my friends beg to differ. Mainly, they are concerned about some of the language he uses ... Read More
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Trust Your Longing for Social Engagement. It’s for Your Own Good! July 25, 2017 . 8 Comments
Tam came home after a long, successful day at work. Well respected among his colleagues and managers, and well liked among his friends, Tam had everything going for him. Yet this evening ... Read More
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Report: Older Americans Have More Affairs Than Younger Americans July 20, 2017 . 4 Comments
More older Americans than younger Americans are having extramarital affairs, according to a report by the Institute for Family Studies, a think tank that advocates for marriage and family ... Read More
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Break Up or Make Up? What to Consider Before Reconsidering Your Ex July 20, 2017 . 6 Comments
When a couple breaks up, it is often inevitable that one or both of the parties involved consider the idea of getting back together. After a breakup, it’s often easier for us to look ... Read More
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Little White Lies: How Dishonesty Affects Intimate Relationships July 20, 2017 . 10 Comments
When I think of white lies, I think of a true story about me and my mother. Not an intimate relationship, I agree, but still the sort of thing that could happen between married partners. Though ... Read More
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4 Ways Affection Can Hurt Your Relationship July 19, 2017 . 5 Comments
Demonstrating affection can either bridge or divide your relationship. Generally, people tend to regard affection as a positive experience. However, the intention behind your affection ... Read More
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7 Questions to Consider When You’re Stuck in a Relationship That Hurts July 10, 2017 . 11 Comments
My last article, Why We Stay in Relationships That Hurt, examined why some people get stuck (or choose to stay) in painful relationships. Since the topic resonated with many readers, I ... Read More
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Study: To Revive Marital Spark, Look at Cute Animals June 28, 2017 . 4 Comments
People who see images of their spouse paired with positive images, including those of cute animals, can improve their marital satisfaction, according to a study published in the journal ... Read More
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Is Polyamory Right for Us If We Sometimes Experience Jealousy? June 16, 2017 . 3 Comments
Dear GoodTherapy.org, One of my partners and I have been together for more than three years. About a year ago, we opened our relationship to a third person and ultimately both fell in love ... Read More
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The ‘Four Cs’ of Relationship Conflict That May Predict Divorce June 15, 2017 . 7 Comments
Marriage symbolizes the beginning of a (hopefully) lifelong commitment, so it makes sense couples tend to spend a lot of time and energy preparing for this milestone. Yet, while many engaged ... Read More