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Apologizing with Intention: 4 Reasons Your Apology Didn’t Work June 14, 2017 . 5 Comments
Recently, I sat in session with a married couple named Dara and Mike. Speaking to one of the issues that brought them to therapy, Dara said, “Every time I tell him I don’t feel like ... Read More
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4 Ways to Get the Most Out of Couples Therapy May 31, 2017 . 5 Comments
What makes couples therapy successful? I’ve see couples move from relationship nightmare to healthy and happy within six months of counseling. In many cases, by the time the couple ends ... Read More
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Sexting Might Not Negatively Affect Relationships, Sexual Behavior May 29, 2017 . 1 Comment
Even though researchers and commentators have debated whether sexting undermines relationships or leads to high-risk sexual behavior, new research published in the Journal of Computer-Mediated ... Read More
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Study: Sexual Harassment, Misogyny Prevalent Among Young People May 23, 2017 . 2 Comments
Teenagers and young adults often experience misogyny and sexual harassment in their relationships, according to a new report from Harvard University. The report found many adults are highly ... Read More
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Office Affairs: When a Workplace Friendship Crosses the Line May 23, 2017 . 7 Comments
Workplace affairs are on the rise. Research indicates that from 1982 to 1990, 38% of unfaithful wives had affairs starting at work. From 1991 to 2000, 50% of unfaithful wives began an affair ... Read More
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Ending the Anxious-Avoidant Dance, Part 2: A Built-In Path to Healing May 18, 2017 . 66 Comments
Editor’s note: This article is the second in a two-part series. See Part 1: Opposing Attachment Styles. The conflict is both a fight for and a protection against intimacy. If we can hold ... Read More
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Ending the Anxious-Avoidant Dance, Part 1: Opposing Attachment Styles May 18, 2017 . 52 Comments
Editor’s note: This article is the first in a two-part series. See Part 2: A Built-In Path to Healing. Few of us might consider pain a gift. To be clear: Relational trauma/abuse is not ... Read More
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Help! How Do I Tell My Partner I Have an STD? May 12, 2017 . 4 Comments
Dear GoodTherapy.org, I’m pretty sure I met the love of my life three weeks ago. I’m falling for him fast. He’s kind, compassionate, generous, funny, and maybe best of ... Read More
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Placebo Effect May Help Ease Pain of Broken Heart After Breakup May 8, 2017 . 1 Comment
When people take steps they believe will help them move past the end of a relationship, they may begin to feel better, according to a study published in The Journal of Neuroscience. The ... Read More
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Buried Desire: When Sexual Issues Underlie Couples Conflict May 4, 2017 . 3 Comments
Despite the growing number of sex therapists and sex educators in mental health, coaching, and self-actualization fields, many counseling and social work training programs spend minimal ... Read More
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I Think My Partner Is Cheating on Me. Now What? May 3, 2017 . 3 Comments
Are you worried your partner might be having an affair? Do you tend to check up on whom your partner has been befriending and/or communicating with on social media? You may or may not have ... Read More
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Ego Love or Authentic Love: How Do You Know If You Truly Love Someone? April 27, 2017 . 10 Comments
As a therapist specializing in relationship issues, I often see people in therapy existentially contemplating what love really means. Some wonder whether they truly love(d) their partner, ... Read More