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Insidious Oppression: 10 Common Racial Microaggressions
As we covered in last month’s article on microaggressions, they are often subtle, racial insults by well-intentioned people. And they’re experienced by people of color on a regular, ... Read More
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The Shameful Fallout of Parental Rejection for LGBT Kids
The foster care system has a disproportionate number of LGBT youth in its care—the result of so many being abandoned by their parents. This often happens at a time when children most ... Read More
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8 Psychological Tips for Being More Confident
Confidence is something we all struggle with from time to time. We want to feel sure of ourselves, but those little whispers of self-doubt show up whenever we want to put ourselves out ... Read More
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Why Change Is So Hard: The Power of Habit in the Human Brain
Have you ever tried to shed an old, troublesome habit? Ever made a New Year’s resolution you couldn’t keep? If so, welcome to the human race. And welcome to your brain. We Are Creatures ... Read More
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Absent Fathers and the Implications for a Child’s Well-Being
The absence of fathers in the lives of their children is not uncommon. David Blankenhorn (1995), author of Fatherless America, wrote, “The United States is becoming an increasingly fatherless ... Read More
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Safe, Sane, and Consensual: The Bedrock Ethics of BDSM
Whether you read, saw, loved, or hated Fifty Shades of Grey, there’s no denying that its release started a larger conversation about BDSM in popular culture. It’s important for us to ... Read More
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From Phone Sex to Internet Sex: Addiction at Your Fingertips
I recently spoke with a young colleague who had just completed training to become a certified sexual addiction therapist (CSAT). She was astonished to hear my stories of what I jokingly ... Read More
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5 Ways to Improve Your Mental Health and Increase Happiness
Your mental health affects your overall health more than you may realize. When you are stressed out, angry, or sad, your body suffers, too—whether it be in the form of digestive issues, ... Read More
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Letting Go of Rigid Independence: Why It’s Good to Have Help
Why is it so difficult for some people to allow themselves to be helped? If there was a spectrum on which one end was total independence and the other was complete dependence, where would ... Read More
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The Unique Grief of Mothers without Living Children
In my practice, I see many mothers who have lost their only children during pregnancy or early infancy. They show up at my office struggling with grief and feelings of isolation. Some also ... Read More
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Between Therapy Sessions: 3 Handy Coping Skills for Trauma
While it’s true that working with a good trauma therapist enhances healing, not all trauma work happens in the therapy room. Even when a person regularly sees a therapist, the trauma ... Read More
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4 Ways to Get Out of ‘Mommy Mode’ and Into ‘Partner Mode’
The transition from being a wife or partner to being a mother with children can be a difficult one. Whereas before you could give all your time and attention to your partner or spouse, ... Read More