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I Am Concerned My Daughter-In-Law Is a Hypochondriac Mother
Being worried about your grandchildren is distressing and difficult in that you have limited recourse as to be direct in making a change to their lives. Munchausen syndrome by proxy is ... Read More
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Am I Gay or Bisexual?
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and posing this question. I have considered your situation at length and I find I have several unanswered questions that make it challenging to give ... Read More
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I’m in Love with My Therapist
Thank you for writing such a thoughtful and detailed letter. As a result of your painful loss, you’ve touched on some very important issues that many people could benefit from. It ... Read More
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Therapist’s Conundrum: Wife Wants Out, Husband Refuses to Divorce
I understand your dilemma. She wants to leave; he can’t understand that she is leaving and can’t let go. This is a painful situation for couples. It leaves both in anguish; ... Read More
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I Can’t Stop Defending Myself
Thank you for sharing your experience. Nothing is more vital than learning to have productive dialogue with a partner; with positive communication skills any issue can be worked through ... Read More
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Grieving the End of a Therapy Relationship
First I want to acknowledge how deeply hurt you have been by the sudden end to what was a very meaningful relationship. Very understandably, you are grieving this loss. I believe that much ... Read More
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What Can We Do to Help Our Adult, Drug-Addicted Daughter?
Thank you for your question. I’m sorry to hear about your painful situation. It’s so difficult to see someone we love self-destructing in their addiction. However, it sounds ... Read More
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My Therapist Cries during Our Sessions; Is This Normal?
I appreciate your comment about therapists who cry, and I understand that it makes you uncomfortable. From the outside, I can’t know the exact cause of your therapist’s tears, ... Read More
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How Do I Get My Husband to Go to Therapy?
I’m glad you’re acknowledging your feelings rather than avoiding them, as avoidance often leads to unhappiness. I agree that talking with each other is essential to reconnecting ... Read More