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Are You Stunting Your Kids’ Transition into Adulthood?
June 30, 2015 .
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Why is it that, in today’s society, parents have so much difficulty getting their kids to transition into adulthood? How is it that many parents find that their kids are seemingly incapable ... Read More
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Powerlessness: Learning to Live with the Unchangeable
June 30, 2015 .
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Most of the people who come to my office are contemplating a life change or trying to feel better about one that happened recently. They feel stressed and unsure about decisions they have ... Read More
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GoodTherapy.org Reviews ‘Principles of Trauma Therapy’
June 24, 2015 .
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“…Not all psychological impacts can be encompassed by a list of symptoms or disorders.” —From Principles of Trauma Therapy Make no mistake about it, Principles of Trauma Therapy: ... Read More
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Shifting Identities: Why Your Experiences Don’t Define You
June 19, 2015 .
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Rachel Dolezal, a Caucasian woman, has dominated recent news with her assertion that she identifies as black. Like many people, I was initially perplexed about why someone would choose ... Read More
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Working with the Inner Critic Essential to Inner Work
June 17, 2015 .
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Andrea woke up feeling great and full of energy. She grabbed a bagel and a coffee on her way to the bus station and ate it on the bus to work. She arrived on time and proceeded to the conference ... Read More
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Empathic Curiosity: How DBT Builds Better Relationships
June 17, 2015 .
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Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is generally described as a skills-based treatment, a type of cognitive behavioral therapy, and an intensive team-based approach to help people who have ... Read More
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Silencing the Inner Critic: The Power of Self-Compassion
June 8, 2015 .
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“You yourself, as much as anybody else in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” —Buddha As I write this, I can feel anxiety in my entire body; my legs are restless, ... Read More
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The Secret to Self-Awareness in Dialectical Behavior Therapy
May 14, 2015 .
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Have you ever found yourself in such an emotional storm that you didn’t feel in control of what you were doing? When we are at our most vulnerable, we are most likely to act in the ... Read More
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Parenting with Discipline: What Type of Parent Are You?
May 1, 2015 .
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Father and son sitting on a park bench As parents, we frequently focus on learning how best to “discipline” our children. Yet I find the greatest challenge in learning how to be, as ... Read More
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EMDR for Children: How Safe and Effective Is It?
April 30, 2015 .
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As a therapist, I’ve used eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) therapy to treat many adults with mental health issues resulting from trauma. This method of therapy is ... Read More
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Passing the Hot Potato: Let Others Solve Their Own Problems!
April 28, 2015 .
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Do you spend too much time on other people’s problems? You lead a busy lifestyle and you have plenty of problems of your own to solve. But have you ever noticed how much time you spend ... Read More
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20 Cognitive Distortions and How They Affect Your Life
April 7, 2015 .
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Our circumstances don’t define us. Regardless of what happens in life, we always have the power to choose our attitude. So what’s the difference between someone who remains hopeful ... Read More