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Trauma and Re-Experiencing: The Intrusion of Past into Present
April 17, 2014 .
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Last month I wrote about avoidance, one component of trauma-related struggles for many people. Another one of the primary things therapists consider when exploring trauma-related problems ... Read More
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When a Loved One Dies By Suicide: Dealing with God
April 16, 2014 .
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Grief after any death can raise a lot of questions. For a person of faith who has beliefs about the afterlife, a loved one taking their own life can raise specific questions that can be ... Read More
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The Five Most Common Mental Health Diagnoses
April 16, 2014 .
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Despite decades of work to educate the public about the nature of mental health conditions, mental health issues are still accompanied by stigma. Many people perceive that mental health ... Read More
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From Sad to Mad: How Suppressing Your Sadness Invites Anger
April 15, 2014 .
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In my introductory article on anger management, I introduced you to the notion that anger management per se often misses the mark. Spending all our time and energy handling our anger in ... Read More
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Five Tips to Quit Smoking that Really Work
April 15, 2014 .
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Every smoker knows that smoking poses serious health risks, but the prospect of quitting can be daunting. Nicotine withdrawals can last between three and 14 days, and some smokers find ... Read More
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Creativity: Unexpected Side Effect of Trauma/PTSD?
April 9, 2014 .
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We know that certain functions of the body shut down when a person is faced with a threatening situation. This allows other parts to become more active. Larger sets of muscles receive more ... Read More
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How Being a Pleaser May Increase Your Risk of Infidelity
April 8, 2014 .
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Cheating is an emotionally charged topic. When we hear of an affair, our immediate response can feel like a punch in the stomach. We empathize with what the betrayed partner must be going ... Read More
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Conflict Resolution: Understanding the Four Temperaments
April 8, 2014 .
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There are four types of human beings, and I believe each is designed to attend to at least one of four critical areas of need in a functioning human society. The tasks that each temperament ... Read More
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Can Your Anti-Anxiety Medication Kill You?
April 4, 2014 .
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Many people have heard that anxiety medications can have some serious side effects, such as addiction, memory problems, impaired driving, and sleepiness. But a provocative new study claims ... Read More
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Can We Survive My Girlfriend’s Control and Abandonment Issues? April 4, 2014 . 7 Comments
Thank you for your question. Boy, have you been on a roller coaster! In fact, this was my first response: Gee, does he really want to get back on? But then I reflected on it, and I began ... Read More
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Five Keys to Dating Him without Getting Hurt
April 4, 2014 .
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Today’s world is filled with messages on how to date, but frankly, most of what we hear is creating heartache after heartache for women. After even one heartbreak, a woman might find ... Read More
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How ‘Power Posing’ Can Change Your Body and Mind
April 2, 2014 .
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There’s a good reason why more than 16 million people have viewed Harvard professor Amy J. Cuddy’s TED Talk: “Your Body Language Shapes Who You Are.” In it, Dr. Cuddy describes ... Read More