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How Can I Help My Friends Help Me Grieve?
Loss is a great equalizer. It knows no age, gender, race, religion, socioeconomic status, or value system. At some point in life, we will all experience loss. If we want to be healthy humans, ... Read More
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Want to Manage Anxiety Naturally? Here Are 9 Ways to Begin
If you have anxiety, your doctor may have prescribed medication. Medication can help many people, and maybe it worked for you. But maybe it didn’t help. Or maybe you’d just rather ... Read More
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Broadening Our Understanding of Trauma: Why Context Matters
The influence of trauma in mental and chemical health treatment is getting more and more attention. When we hear the word “trauma,” we tend to think of events that lead to death or ... Read More
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How to Own Your Story: Honoring Pains and Collecting Joys
Every person has a unique set of life experiences. Some are painful, some are joyous, and many more are somewhere in between. However, it is common for people to undervalue or undermine ... Read More
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Is Walking on Eggshells Making You Resentful?
“I spent so many years walking on eggshells … never doing or saying the right thing. One day I decided I’d had enough and stomped all over them. Those broken eggshells cut me deeply ... Read More
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Reconnecting with Self, Part 2: Mindfully Heading Toward Discomfort
“What we are about to undertake is an expedition together, a journey of discovery into the most secret recesses of our consciousness. And for such an adventure, we must travel light. ... Read More
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Reconnecting with Self, Part 1: Untangling Early Life Adaptations
Life does not always turn out the way we’d like. We carry our stories. In some moments, we might feel like kings. In others, we feel like failures. We feel grotesque. For some, the ... Read More
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How to Handle a Disrespectful Teenager: 6 Tips for Parents
“Don’t you walk away when I’m talking to you!” “But Mom!” “Don’t ‘but Mom’ me. I’m not finished here!” Sigh. Eye roll. “You’re ... Read More
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Understanding the Role of Shame in Complex Posttraumatic Stress
The two most common and well-known mental health issues are depression and anxiety. About 19% of Americans experience depression at least once in their lives. The figure for anxiety is ... Read More
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The Impact of Legalization on Health, Wellness, and Community
“What’s the big deal about smoking pot? It’s legal.” Have you or someone you know who uses marijuana said this? Did you know that marijuana is still federally illegal? Marijuana ... Read More
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When Love Is a Battlefield: How to Win a Battle Without Losing the War
We live in a competitive world. Sports, politics, and business can create the illusion that one person needs to lose for another to triumph. Yet in all these apparently cutthroat fields, ... Read More
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What Should We Tell the Kids About Why We Are Divorcing?
I have so much respect for couples who sit in my office and ask for help with their divorce. It can be fairly easy to help with some questions, such as, “What type of parenting schedules ... Read More