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The Psychological Wounds of Domestic Violence
October 17, 2014 .
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For many people, there are few things that evoke a more reassuring sense of warmth, comfort, stability, and safety than going home. Many people see their home as a personal stronghold—a ... Read More
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Is It Possible to Become Dependent on Therapy? I’m Not Rich! October 17, 2014 . 8 Comments
Thanks for the letter and your thoughtful questions. I am very pleased that you reached out, seeking advice on what to do. You ask if it’s possible to become dependent on therapy, and ... Read More
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I’m OK, You’re Not OK … and That’s Perfectly OK
October 17, 2014 .
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Have you ever been in a situation where you’re in a good mood, but then you talk to a friend who’s not doing so well and suddenly you feel conflicted? You want to support your friend, ... Read More
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The Stages of a Relationship (and the Purposes They Serve)
October 15, 2014 .
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Many people believe that if you meet the right person and fall in love, you are meant to be with this person. That there won’t be anything you will ever want to change about them. That ... Read More
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3 Steps to Unburdening Yourself from Perfectionist Thoughts
October 14, 2014 .
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Perfectionism is one of those things that carry both positive and negative qualities, making it a tricky and complicated issue to understand. If you are detail-oriented or want the best ... Read More
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4 Benefits of Sharing Your Smile or a Laugh
October 13, 2014 .
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Have you ever busted out in good, hearty laughter for a couple of minutes and then felt a rush of blissful joy? You know the kind of laugh we’re talking about; the one where you have ... Read More
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Divorce Rates Similar among Gay and Straight Couples
October 9, 2014 .
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Opponents of gay marriage have periodically argued that gay marriage is fundamentally different and that gay couples are more likely to break up. According to a new study, though, gay marriage ... Read More
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Want Better Sex? Put the Senses in Sensuality
October 7, 2014 .
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Sex sells. Sex sells vacations, music, perfume, clothing, even salad dressing with both covert and overt sexual messages. Sex also sells products that will supposedly help us become sexier, ... Read More
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How Can I Trust after My Girlfriend and Friend Betrayed Me? October 3, 2014 . 10 Comments
Thanks for writing in. Gosh, I’m sorry you’ve been through such an emotionally brutal experience. I can’t imagine the blow of losing a girlfriend and an allegedly good friend at once, ... Read More
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When Cross-Dressing Puts Relationships in the Crosshairs
September 30, 2014 .
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A long time ago, my (much older) bachelor next-door neighbor confided in me that his pleasure in life was purely “sartorial.” Unfamiliar with the term, I ran to my dictionary and ... Read More
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Kids’ Mental Health Impacted by Strict, ‘Tiger Mom’ Parenting
September 27, 2014 .
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Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, Amy Chua’s controversial 2011 book, advocates a highly controlling and often punitive style of parenting. A new study that looked specifically at ... Read More
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Does Your Mood Change with the Seasons?
September 25, 2014 .
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Fall and winter bring cooler nights and darker mornings. Along with the temperature and light changes, many people are also dealing with back-to-school changes for themselves or their children. ... Read More