Haley Selarnick, MS, LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

Haley Selarnick, MS, LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

Telehealth Available
Professions: Life Coach, Marriage & Family Therapist, Psychotherapist
License Status: I'm a licensed professional.
Primary Credential: Marriage and Family Therapist - Limited Permit
Billing and Insurance:

I don't currently accept insurance, but I can provide documentation if clients wish to submit to an insurance company for "out of network" benefit coverage

Fees: I am out of network with insurances. However, if you have a PPO or out of network coverage insurance plan, our office will provide you with documentation for you to provide to your insurance company for reimbursement. Many of the clinicians here at Thriving Center of Psychology (including me) offer flexible pricing to work with the needs of our clients! ($100-$300) I also offer a free 15-minute video consultation prior to committing to an appointment to ensure the best fit for your needs.
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600 3rd Ave
Floor 2
New York City, New York 10016
White Plains, New York 10604

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My Approach to Helping

Haley Selarnick, MS, MFT holds a master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Thomas Jefferson University.

Haley’s approach to psychotherapy is both compassionate and attentive. She strives to collaborate with clients to find solutions that work for them. Being a systemically trained therapist, Haley looks at the impact society, family, friends, partners, and cultures have on our journey. She understands that, at times, we all struggle to move out of ineffective and harmful communication patterns and within that struggle we find distress and anxiety.

To that aim, Haley employs a combination of insight-oriented and evidence based approaches, including Emotion-focused couples therapy (EFT), Narrative therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help clients achieve their goals.

As a therapist, she understands that we all tell stories about our lives (who we are, who or what we connect with, what limits us). Haley works with clients to understand their stories and what parts get hidden, left out, or over-addressed. She believes that the fabric of our lives are the stories we tell and aims to help clients tell their stories in ways that benefit them.

Her work with clients includes, but is not limited to, addressing trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, grief, low-self esteem, and chronic illness. Haley is also a certified Prepare and Enrich Relationship Check Up Clinician, which is an evidence-based assessment for couples interested in exploring engagement, marriage, or co-habitation. This assessment will show couples where they excel as well as what areas they can grow in and how.

Services I Provide

  • Coaching
  • Consultation
  • Individual Therapy & Counseling
  • Marriage, Couples, or Relationship Counseling
  • Telehealth

Ages I Work With

  • Adults
  • Elders


  • English

Client Concerns I Treat

  • Academic Concerns
  • Addictions and Compulsions
  • Adjusting to Change / Life Transitions
  • Anger
  • Anxiety
  • Behaviorism
  • Body Image
  • Breakup
  • Bullying
  • Career Choice
  • Codependency / Dependency
  • Communication Problems
  • Compulsive Spending / Shopping
  • Control Issues
  • Creative Blocks
  • Depression
  • Divorce / Divorce Adjustment
  • Emotional Abuse
  • Emotional Intelligence
  • Emotional Overwhelm
  • Emptiness
  • Exercise Addiction
  • Family of Origin Issues
  • Family Problems
  • Fear
  • Fertility Issues
  • Forgiveness
  • Grief, Loss, and Bereavement
  • Habits
  • Health / Illness / Medical Issues
  • Helplessness / Victimhood
  • Identity Issues
  • Inadequacy
  • Inattention, Impulsivity, and Hyperactivity (ADHD)
  • Individuation
  • Infidelity / Affair Recovery
  • Internet Addiction
  • Irritability
  • Isolation
  • Jealousy
  • LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender) Issues
  • Life Purpose / Meaning / Inner-Guidance
  • Men's Issues
  • Money and Financial Issues
  • Mood Swings / Mood Disturbance
  • Obsessions and Compulsions (OCD)
  • Other - Not Listed Here
  • Panic
  • Perfectionism
  • Phobias
  • Polyamory / Nonmonogamous Relationships
  • Posttraumatic Stress / Trauma
  • Power
  • Prejudice / Discrimination
  • Racism
  • Rejection
  • Relationships and Marriage
  • Self-Actualization
  • Self-Care
  • Self-Compassion
  • Self-Confidence
  • Self-Criticism
  • Self-Doubt
  • Self-Esteem
  • Self-Harm
  • Self-Love
  • Sensitivity to Criticism
  • Sexual Assault / Abuse
  • Sexuality / Sex Therapy
  • Shame
  • Social Anxiety / Phobia
  • Stress
  • Suspiciousness / Paranoia
  • Trust Issues
  • Values Clarification
  • Workplace Issues
  • Worry
  • Worthlessness

Types of Therapy

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Emotion Focused Couples Therapy
  • Emotion Focused Therapy
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy
  • Mindfulness-Based Interventions

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