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Help! My Husband Refuses to Unfriend a Woman He Flirted With October 2, 2015 . 14 Comments
Thank you for your letter. I am sure that it hurt your feelings, to say the least, when your husband laughed at your request to remove the woman from his Facebook friends list. I also think ... Read More
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14 Telltale Signs You Have Crossed Into an Emotional Affair September 12, 2015 . 55 Comments
Are you really just friends? Have you crossed the line? If you are asking yourself these questions, you may be engaged in an emotional affair. Affairs that are not physical or sexual in ... Read More
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Life Is Short, Have a Marriage: Surviving Ashley Madison September 9, 2015 . 15 Comments
You’re afraid to look, but there’s a nagging feeling you should. Your relationship with your husband has grown distant in the past couple of years. You don’t go on dates anymore. ... Read More
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After Ashley Madison: What to Know Before You Come Clean August 31, 2015 . 8 Comments
In light of the recent breach of personal data from Ashley Madison, a website promoting infidelity, the concept of how to disclose potentially damaging and hurtful information is a vital ... Read More
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Fallout from Ashley Madison Hack Continues, and Other News August 28, 2015 . 9 Comments
A cyber hack in July that released the names of thousands of users associated with Ashley Madison, a dating website designed to help its users find affair partners, may have long-term ... Read More
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Should I Tell My Wife about an Affair That Ended Long Ago? August 21, 2015 . 19 Comments
Thank you for your question. It does indeed sound as though the vice-like grip of guilt has taken hold. Painful, indeed. As Pete Campbell from Mad Men said in the show’s final season ... Read More
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Why I Get Excited When an Affair Brings a Couple to Therapy August 18, 2015 . 12 Comments
I recently attended a presentation on infidelity. At one point, I turned to a colleague and whispered, “When a couple calls me and reports an affair, I get excited about working with ... Read More
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Betrayal Is a Bear: When Relationships Stumble onto a Threat July 30, 2015 . 6 Comments
Several years ago, I was walking alone in uninhabited woods on a beautiful spring day, enjoying my solitude and the natural beauty. Lost in thought, I barely registered the bear droppings ... Read More
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Trans Identities Not Caused By Hormone Imbalance, and Other News July 24, 2015 . 11 Comments
Transgender youth face a world in which their identities are often pathologized and their gender expression treated as indication of a hormone imbalance or other medical issue. According ... Read More
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It Was Only Flirting, but Now My Husband Doesn’t Trust Me July 17, 2015 . 8 Comments
With the intensity of the feelings you and your husband are experiencing, I imagine two weeks feels like a long time. In reality, and especially considering your husband’s preexisting ... Read More
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Affair Recovery: 5 Steps to Repairing Your Relationship June 18, 2015 . 38 Comments
Coping with an affair is one of the greatest challenges a couple might face. Some people choose not to try to cope and instead leave the relationship feeling devastated by unprocessed anger ... Read More
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My Husband Cheated! So Why Is Our Sex Life Hotter Than Ever? April 17, 2015 . 8 Comments
Thank you for your letter. Let me start by saying this pattern is more common than many people realize. There are varying opinions on why feelings and reactions evolve this way, but there ... Read More