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You Want Kids. Your Partner Doesn’t. Can Therapy Help?
February 23, 2018 .
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“Things are really coming together for us,” the man in my office said confidently. “If we can just figure out the kid thing.” His fiancee nodded. “The kid thing,” I repeated, ... Read More
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You Cheated, Now What? Healing Your Relationship After Your Affair
December 20, 2017 .
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The discovery or revelation of infidelity is one of the most difficult events a relationship can experience. In many couples, there is a sudden upheaval of emotion that threatens to swallow ... Read More
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Help! My Wife Doesn’t Love Me Anymore and Says She Needs ‘Space’ August 25, 2017 . 9 Comments
Dear GoodTherapy.org, I’ve been married for nine years and have two children. This past month, my wife told me that she no longer loves me and she needs space. I was diagnosed with ... Read More
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The Anger Cycle: Coping with Anger—and Its Impact—in Relationships
August 9, 2017 .
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Editor’s note: The following article refers to instances of anger in relationships that do not escalate into any kind of abuse, either physical or emotional. Articles discussing ... Read More
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How to Keep Passion Alive in a Long-Term Relationship
August 1, 2017 .
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Sexuality is a crucial energizing force in the lives of human beings. At its best, sex in an intimate relationship is an expression of the emotional bond between two people. It is best ... Read More
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4 Ways Affection Can Hurt Your Relationship
July 19, 2017 .
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Demonstrating affection can either bridge or divide your relationship. Generally, people tend to regard affection as a positive experience. However, the intention behind your affection ... Read More
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The ‘Four Cs’ of Relationship Conflict That May Predict Divorce
June 15, 2017 .
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Marriage symbolizes the beginning of a (hopefully) lifelong commitment, so it makes sense couples tend to spend a lot of time and energy preparing for this milestone. Yet, while many engaged ... Read More
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Apologizing with Intention: 4 Reasons Your Apology Didn’t Work
June 14, 2017 .
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Recently, I sat in session with a married couple named Dara and Mike. Speaking to one of the issues that brought them to therapy, Dara said, “Every time I tell him I don’t feel like ... Read More
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4 Ways to Get the Most Out of Couples Therapy
May 31, 2017 .
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What makes couples therapy successful? I’ve see couples move from relationship nightmare to healthy and happy within six months of counseling. In many cases, by the time the couple ends ... Read More
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Office Affairs: When a Workplace Friendship Crosses the Line
May 23, 2017 .
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Workplace affairs are on the rise. Research indicates that from 1982 to 1990, 38% of unfaithful wives had affairs starting at work. From 1991 to 2000, 50% of unfaithful wives began an affair ... Read More
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Buried Desire: When Sexual Issues Underlie Couples Conflict
May 4, 2017 .
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Despite the growing number of sex therapists and sex educators in mental health, coaching, and self-actualization fields, many counseling and social work training programs spend minimal ... Read More
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Help! How Do I Get My Husband to Court Me Again? April 21, 2017 . 6 Comments
Dear GoodTherapy.org, I have been married to my husband for 12 years and I love him with all my heart. I would never dream of leaving him, so I want to get that out of the way right off ... Read More