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Coming Out in Adulthood: Challenges and Expectations
August 11, 2010 .
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Most teenagers naturally reach a point where the bounds of sexuality are explored and roles and sexual identity are created. For LGBT teens this natural part of growing up can often be ... Read More
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Using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to Quit Smoking August 4, 2010 . 6 Comments
A recent study of people who are trying to quit smoking shows that Cognitive Behavioral Therapy can help reduce cigarette cravings. Overcoming cravings is an essential part of successful ... Read More
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How Body Shame Can Affect Clothing Choices
August 2, 2010 .
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While working in my office in the summer, on a hot day, I had cause to consider the clothing I was wearing. My office is on the second floor, and by mid-afternoon the sun had moved over ... Read More
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Therapy For Abusive Mothers: What Makes a Difference? August 1, 2010 . 21 Comments
For adults who were physically or verbally abused as children, psychotherapy is an important step in working through the difficult emotions these experiences have created. But what about ... Read More
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What Is Codependency? An Introduction
July 28, 2010 .
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Codependency is a pattern of behaviors and beliefs learned by children of dysfunctional families while they are growing up. These behaviors and beliefs can be helpful to the family unit, ... Read More
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Six Tips to Make Marriage and Couples Counseling Work July 23, 2010 . 26 Comments
What can you do to improve the chances that couples therapy is worth the time and money you put into it? In other words, what makes marriage counseling work? With the help of a skilled ... Read More
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Barriers to Effective Communication
July 16, 2010 .
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Although communication plays the most crucial part in our relationships with the people in our lives, the average person does not communicate well. Problems with communication can lead ... Read More
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Self-Esteem vs. Self-Criticism
July 16, 2010 .
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People often speak as if self-esteem were based on a self-evaluation of your skills and talents. We’re encouraged to think about the things we’re good at in order to improve our reputation ... Read More
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Relationships and the Importance of Reciprocity
July 12, 2010 .
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Most of us do not consciously think about reciprocity in our intimate relationships. When we do, we might say, “Of course it is important.” Like the Golden Rule, we recognize ... Read More
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How Trauma Impacts Your Sense of Self: Part II
July 7, 2010 .
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As discussed in Part I of this series, surviving a traumatic event often results in negative and harsh altered beliefs about yourself. A traumatic event can also impact your sense of worth, ... Read More
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Separated Parents: Six Ways to Manage Holiday Scheduling July 1, 2010 . 3 Comments
Parent #1: It’s already December. We need to decide about Christmas and you had Johnny last year. Why do you think you should have him again this year? Parent #2: You know how important ... Read More
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Doting Mothers Cause Depressed Kids, Once Grown? June 26, 2010 . 15 Comments
Perceived favoritism on the part of a mother can cause long-term psychological effects on all her children well into adulthood, according to new research. Gerontologist Karl Pillemer from ... Read More