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Autism Acceptance Month: Embracing Autism as an Identity

Family on a picnicApril is National Autism Awareness Month, with groups such as Autism Speaks (AS) advocating for more research into a “cure” for autism. However, many autistic adults have urged a boycott of the awareness campaign. They say AS and similar organizations increase autism stigma, and autism is not something that demands a cure. Rather than raising awareness, many autism advocates prefer to celebrate autism with Autism Acceptance Month.

The debate is part of a larger dispute between those who support the search for a cure for autism and those who embrace autism as a brain variation worthy of celebration.

#Lightitupblue or #Redinstead? Autism as an Identity

Autism Speaks has encouraged autism advocates to “light it up blue,” by placing a blue light outside their homes in April. Opponents of the movement have adopted the slogan “red instead,” suggesting red as a symbol of autism acceptance.

Many autism advocates say autism organizations have excluded the voices of autistic people. This exclusion, advocates say, removes the perspective of autistic people from strategies designed to benefit them. Autism Speaks had no autistic board members for a decade. In 2013, the organization’s first autistic board member resigned, citing stigmatizing language in fundraising campaigns as the reason for his resignation.

Leah Ashe is a parent to two autistic boys—a 12-year-old and a 10-year-old.

“Following diagnosis, I heartily supported AS, being desperate for hope and support,” Ashe said. “I learned quickly that isn’t their purpose. I despise that the message of Autism Speaks is one of needing to fix or prevent children like mine from being born. And the fact that they don’t invite a significant contribution from individuals with autism on their board just confirms for me that they do not see individuals with autism as having valuable contributions to make.”

According to the Autism Self Advocacy Network (ASAN), there is a clear divide between advocates who see autism as an alternative way of thinking and being and those who see it as a barrier or disability. Members of the first group usually say they see autism as an identity, recommending language calling a person autistic. People who see autism as a barrier, by contrast, tend to endorse people-first language. They usually see autism as a stigmatizing label and just one component of a person’s identity. ASAN continues to encourage policymakers, researchers, and medical providers to listen to the needs of the autistic community and treat autism as an inherent part of a person’s identity.

The Controversial Search for an Autism Cure

The search for an autism cure has been relatively uncontroversial, but ASAN and other autism advocates say this search is misguided. They understand autism as a neurological variant with benefits and drawbacks, not a disease or something that should be cured.

Many people further argue that the search for a cure has inhibited other efforts. They point out that Autism Speaks spends only a sliver of its budget on family services that support autistic people and their families, offering little support.

Mental health experts increasingly promote an acceptance-based approach to autism.

Sarah Swenson, MA, LMHC, is a Seattle, Washington, therapist who specializes in counseling couples in which at least one partner is on the autism spectrum. She says the issue of neurodiversity frequently arises in her work with couples, and seeing autism as a unique way of thinking instead of a pathology can help both members of a couple.

“Both individuals initially want to know whether autism can be cured, or whether the person with autism can change and become more neurotypical,” Swenson said. “These couples struggle in ways different from other couples, and it is important to recognize the neurological differences that set the stage for these struggles. What would be the point in pathologizing autism? How could that possibly help an individual or a couple? Understanding the differences and helping resolve problems that arise so that anxiety and stress are reduced helps everyone live better and in greater harmony at home and at work. It does not cure anything, nor does it attempt to do so. There is nothing to be cured in the first place.”

Not all autism advocates agree with this approach. Parents of autistic children often point to the barriers they and their children face. They say some advocacy groups misrepresent the severity of autism and the extent to which it limits some autistic people. Some autistic people may never speak, live independently, or be able to be alone.

What Is Autism Acceptance Month?

Opponents of Autism Awareness Month have dubbed April Autism Acceptance Month. According to the Autism Acceptance Month website:

  • Autistic people should be able to speak for themselves.
  • Autism is just a variant in the normal human experience.
  • The world needs many different experiences and minds.

Ashe said she now sees her sons’ autism as valuable, not something demanding a cure.

“Their autism gives them a perspective and life experience unique from neurotypical individuals, and it’s a valuable contribution to our world,” she said.

Heather Comprosky, a 33-year-old autistic woman, is the founder of Autastic Me. Comprosky considers autism her superpower and echoes the desire for acceptance and diversity rather than a cure.

“When I first began researching autism, I was overwhelmed by the sense that I was broken and needed to be fixed,” Comprosky said. “Most of the information that was prevalent was depressing and filled with a lot of negatively charged rhetoric. After stumbling upon the neurodiversity movement, it became much easier to accept myself for all that I am. At the end of the day every human wants to be accepted.”


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  • Tiki

    April 17th, 2017 at 11:28 AM

    I get it- you want your children to be accepted for who they are. But I also get that this would be something that others would want to prevent for the future.

  • Candice

    April 18th, 2017 at 11:09 AM

    Most families who are living this reality don’t want any judgement or anyone telling them that they could do this or that, they simply want the very best services which are available to them and their child so to have as normal of a life as possible.
    This might mean a pediatrician who is caring and understanding, a case worker who goes out of his way to help you with certain services, just a hand extended in friendship when the days get rough… really, patience and kindness from others goes a long way toward helping families who are living with this on a daily basis.

  • Kristen

    April 21st, 2017 at 6:42 AM

    I do. Frankly my goal as a parent for any child (regardless of neurotype) is to eventually get to a place where I’ve learned enough about them to know how i need to change myself. With my oldest this has meant teaching him to be an independent person and waiting until hes old enough to tell me off himself. I’m lucky with my youngest (who may take a bit longer finding his own words) that there are whole communities of autistic adults willing to take the time (and sometimes pain) to make me aware of things i may not grok on my own and give me a head start.

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