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Compromise in Couples: What Gets in the Way?
May 18, 2010 .
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Lots of people hope for compromise in their relationship. Compromise is great when it happens; there is an easy flow, and both partners feel happy with the results. Nobody feels like they ... Read More
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Planting New Thoughts, Weeding Out the Old
May 3, 2010 .
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The thought manifests as the word; The word manifests as the deed; The deed develops into habit; The habit hardens into character. So watch the thought and its ways with care, And let it ... Read More
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Anger 101 Part I: Understanding, Appreciating, and Coping with Anger
April 29, 2010 .
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The first in a series of articles dedicated to understanding, appreciating, and coping with our anger. “Sticks and Stones.” I am sure most of you have heard this saying and ... Read More
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EMDR: A Symptom-Based, Eight-Phased Treatment
April 28, 2010 .
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Ten years into being trained in eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), I am still amazed by its ability to transform a life filled with trauma, anxiety, and hypervigilance ... Read More
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Mindfulness and the Beauty of Not-Knowing
April 16, 2010 .
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My previous post discussed connecting with the inner knowledge that we gain through the practice of mindfulness. Besides knowledge, another quality that can be developed through mindfulness ... Read More
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Journal Therapy: Adding Colors and Imagery April 14, 2010 . 3 Comments
Journaling is a wonderful way to explore, embrace, and accept your inner world. Colors and pictures can further enhance your understanding of the deep, mysterious internal world. Many of ... Read More
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Individual Versus Couple Therapy: What Format Is Best for Marital Problems
April 6, 2010 .
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The Textbook of Family and Couples Therapy describes the three “most common types of couples therapy”: Individual therapy; Conjoint couples therapy; and Combined couples therapy In ... Read More
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Psychodrama: Family Sculpting
April 1, 2010 .
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Dramatic activities are powerful tools when used in a family therapy setting. One such tool is called psychodrama. An example of one type of psychodrama is family sculpting. The first step ... Read More
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Pain Is Inevitable; Suffering Is Optional
March 30, 2010 .
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“Pain is inevitable; suffering is optional.” —Buddhist proverb One morning when I was trying to leave a meditation group, I became agitated because others were “making me late” ... Read More
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Voice Dialogue and Shadow Work March 23, 2010 . 4 Comments
The human shadow carries with it the potential for global annihilation and the potential to regenerate and evolve our species. At the crossroads, which road shall we choose? I shall be ... Read More
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The Practice of Journaling: Writing to Myself
March 16, 2010 .
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I enjoy writing to myself. Sound strange? I initially chose not to share this information with anyone else because I thought people would be confused by this statement. However, writing ... Read More
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Voice Dialogue in Practice
March 1, 2010 .
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Why did I choose voice dialogue as the cornerstone of my counseling and coaching practice? Voice dialogue moves clients through the most profound healing of life’s traumas, and takes ... Read More