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Want Better Sex? Put the Senses in Sensuality
October 7, 2014 .
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Sex sells. Sex sells vacations, music, perfume, clothing, even salad dressing with both covert and overt sexual messages. Sex also sells products that will supposedly help us become sexier, ... Read More
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How Can I Trust after My Girlfriend and Friend Betrayed Me? October 3, 2014 . 10 Comments
Thanks for writing in. Gosh, I’m sorry you’ve been through such an emotionally brutal experience. I can’t imagine the blow of losing a girlfriend and an allegedly good friend at once, ... Read More
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When Cross-Dressing Puts Relationships in the Crosshairs
September 30, 2014 .
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A long time ago, my (much older) bachelor next-door neighbor confided in me that his pleasure in life was purely “sartorial.” Unfamiliar with the term, I ran to my dictionary and ... Read More
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Kids’ Mental Health Impacted by Strict, ‘Tiger Mom’ Parenting
September 27, 2014 .
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Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, Amy Chua’s controversial 2011 book, advocates a highly controlling and often punitive style of parenting. A new study that looked specifically at ... Read More
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Does Your Mood Change with the Seasons?
September 25, 2014 .
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Fall and winter bring cooler nights and darker mornings. Along with the temperature and light changes, many people are also dealing with back-to-school changes for themselves or their children. ... Read More
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3 Steps to Healing Trauma that Everyone Should Know
September 24, 2014 .
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Most people have had a traumatic experience of some kind. While many of us learn to cope and be resilient in the face of trauma, others may become overwhelmed. Trauma is an overwhelming ... Read More
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Happy in Solitude: The Joy of Being an Introvert
September 24, 2014 .
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I am primarily an introvert. Growing up, I didn’t give it much thought. I just remember that I enjoyed my alone time and would get annoyed if my mother pressured me to go out and play ... Read More
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5 Facts about Stress (and 17 Ways to Deal with It)
September 23, 2014 .
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Americans are famous for being a hard-working bunch, taking the fewest paid vacation days off. I, for one, spent the summer studying advanced yoga therapy techniques on weekends, and working ... Read More
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Getting Off the Merry-Go-Round: Managing Obsessive Thoughts
September 23, 2014 .
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It usually comes at the end of a long day, when you are most in need of rest and settling into the comfort of a warm bed, eager for respite. It is the arrival of “busy brain,” or “monkey ... Read More
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Treating Trauma: Why EMDR Might Be Right for You
September 22, 2014 .
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The first question a person who is seeking help for trauma often asks is, “Will I ever get better?” It is common to feel hopeless after experiencing a traumatic event. Trauma affects ... Read More
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Divorce Without Remorse: When Your Ex Won’t Apologize
September 22, 2014 .
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I see it all the time in my work with divorcing people: the anger, bitterness, and frustration felt when one partner betrays or deceives the other with little or no remorse for their actions. If ... Read More
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Am I Having Flashbacks of Childhood Sexual Abuse? September 19, 2014 . 3 Comments
It can be hard to know for certain whether what you have been experiencing is, in fact, a series of previously repressed memories or something else. It is very possible to rediscover memories ... Read More