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Is It Friendship If You Have Nothing in Common Anymore? February 27, 2015 . 12 Comments
Thanks for your question. I guess the simple and perhaps even smart-alecky answer would be, “Don’t talk about politics and stick to sports!” I have very good friends who disagree ... Read More
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9 Tips for Talking to Teens about Dating and Relationships
February 27, 2015 .
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It happened. You knew it would, but you didn’t think it would happen so quickly. In spite of any hope you had of slowing down the clock, you woke up one day to find that your child ... Read More
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Study Explores How Busy Schedules Affect Well-Being
February 26, 2015 .
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If you’re like most people, you spend some portion of every day stressed about time, obligations, and your ability to get everything done. In an increasingly fast-paced world, where ... Read More
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The Most Important Thing You Can Say to a Sex Abuse Survivor
February 26, 2015 .
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A friend, loved one, or family member pulls you aside to talk. He or she is normally quiet and reserved; this seems out of the ordinary. “I have something very important to tell you. ... Read More
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Resensitization: Coming Back to Life after Trauma
February 23, 2015 .
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Trauma dysregulates the body. It moves energy levels away from baseline to extremes of hyperarousal (“too much,” panic, overwhelm) and sometimes hypoarousal (“low,” lethargy, ... Read More
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Mom’s Leaving Me with Hurt, Guilt, Resentment, and Anger February 20, 2015 . 9 Comments
First, I want to tell you that you are absolutely entitled to all of your feelings—even the ones that seem to contradict each other. Relationships are very complex; there is room for ... Read More
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How to Handle Aggression in Your Child
February 20, 2015 .
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In a culture saturated with violent images, parents naturally worry about their children and the influence of these images on their behavior. The question of whether being exposed to violent ... Read More
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Perfectly Fine: 5 Tips to Overcome Unhealthy Perfectionism
February 19, 2015 .
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Everyone has an image of a “perfectionist” in their mind—the person with the meticulously organized house, the work desk without a pencil out of place, who works fervently day and ... Read More
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‘Hoover Maneuver’: The Dirty Secret of Emotional Abuse
February 19, 2015 .
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People encounter those with narcissism in love, work, and family relationships. When I provide psychotherapy for survivors of narcissistic abuse, one of the first steps in the healing process ... Read More
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5 Reasons Discipline Isn’t Working with Your Child
February 18, 2015 .
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“Discipline just doesn’t work for my child! We have tried everything and nothing works!” Does this sound familiar? Are you frustrated that timeouts, positive reinforcement, or even ... Read More
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Life after Rape: 5 Keys to Growth and Healing for Women
February 17, 2015 .
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Author’s note: This article is written explicitly for women who have been sexually assaulted as teens or adults. Although many of the emotional and psychological issues resulting from ... Read More
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Supporting LGBTQ Teens Coming Out: It’s a Family Process
February 12, 2015 .
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As a therapist who specializes in working with LGBTQ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer) teens and their families during the coming-out process, I am often witness to the reactions ... Read More