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Do Therapists Need a Better Understanding of ‘Vampires’? July 13, 2015 . 5 Comments
In HBO’s True Blood, scientific advances in synthetic blood allow vampires to come out of hiding and live in the open. This show is fictional, but some people today do identify as ... Read More
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How Embracing Uncertainty Can Help Transform LGBTQ+ Lives June 22, 2015 . 9 Comments
The experience of coming out to oneself and others as lesbian, gay, bisexual, queer, and/or transgender is an ongoing process that often shapes how LGBTQ+ people see themselves and how ... Read More
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Shifting Identities: Why Your Experiences Don’t Define You June 19, 2015 . 10 Comments
Rachel Dolezal, a Caucasian woman, has dominated recent news with her assertion that she identifies as black. Like many people, I was initially perplexed about why someone would choose ... Read More
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Authentic Allyship Can Achieve What Rachel Dolezal Cannot June 18, 2015 . 8 Comments
News about Rachel Dolezal, a white woman who says she identified as black from a young age and has portrayed herself publicly as a black woman for years, has flooded social media. Dolezal ... Read More
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Transitions and New Beginnings: Tuning Your Inner Compass June 9, 2015 . 18 Comments
“Two roads diverged in a yellow wood, and sorry I could not travel both and be one traveler, long I stood and looked down one as far as I could to where it bent in the undergrowth.” ... Read More
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How to Support a Transgender Friend or Family Member June 5, 2015 . 32 Comments
When a friend or family member tells you they are transgender, or trans, it can be hard to figure out the best way to show support. Trans issues have recently become part of the mainstream ... Read More
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Bruce Jenner Has the Headlines, but Transgender Is Old News May 22, 2015 . 11 Comments
Bruce Jenner, former Olympic athlete and reality star, has made recent headlines. After months (or longer) of tabloid and entertainment news speculation, Jenner publicly came out in an ... Read More
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Bruce Jenner Comes Out as Transgender, and Other News May 1, 2015 . 3 Comments
In an interview with Diane Sawyer, former Olympic gold medalist and Kardashian family patriarch Bruce Jenner revealed he is transgender. “For all intents and purposes, I am a woman,” ... Read More
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When Parents Project Their Appearance Issues onto Children April 3, 2015 . 11 Comments
I recently overheard a young woman bemoaning that her 2-year-old was “too chubby” so she was going to put her on a diet. This started me thinking about people who are unaware ... Read More
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Attunement in Hakomi Therapy: Bringing ‘Self’ to the Surface March 26, 2015 . 6 Comments
We are not our thoughts. Many arrive at psychotherapy with a limited or unstable sense of Self. They feel unsure, conflicted, or “blank,” sometimes acting out in ways that seem confusing, ... Read More
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Embracing Your Identities: What It Means to Come Out March 6, 2015 . 9 Comments
The act of “coming out” is to move from a place of silence, stigma, or shame toward the possibility of pride and acceptance. Coming out isn’t just about sex or gender expression—we ... Read More
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Oklahoma Alone in Moving to Protect Conversion Therapy March 5, 2015 . 9 Comments
Conversion therapy—sometimes called reparative therapy and other names—is a widely discredited form of therapy that attempts to change people’s sexual orientation or gender identity. ... Read More