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How Everyday Life Demands Our Courage March 9, 2016 . 6 Comments
For some, just getting out of bed in the morning takes courage. Depression, for example, can be debilitating and make it difficult to get out of your head and into your daily life. For ... Read More
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Are Shame and Fear Keeping You from Living Authentically? January 25, 2016 . 9 Comments
One of my favorite writers, fellow social worker Brené Brown, has dedicated years researching vulnerability and all those other seemingly ugly things—such as shame and fear—that get ... Read More
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Study: Fear of Spiders May Be Cured in Two Minutes December 16, 2015 . 9 Comments
At least 30% of Americans have a fear of spiders, or arachnophobia. According to a new study published in Biological Psychiatry, just two minutes of therapy could eradicate that fear. For ... Read More
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3 Keys to Turning Down the Volume on Your Fears December 8, 2015 . 2 Comments
Fear isn’t always right. It just feels like it’s right. Fear is like the loud talker at a meeting everyone just agrees with because he’s loud, intimidating, and seems like he knows ... Read More
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Study: Dental Anxiety May Be Tamed Using CBT December 7, 2015 . 7 Comments
Visiting the dentist is a common and usually normal experience in everyday life, but for people with dental-related anxiety, the visit can manage to instill panic and fear. Many people ... Read More
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What Keeps People from Pursuing Their Hopes and Dreams? November 30, 2015 . 5 Comments
I want to be loved. I want to be fit. I want to have a job I’m proud of. We all have hopes and dreams, but sometimes we take too little action to make them come true. What is it that ... Read More
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Beware the Bubble: Must All Good Things Come to an End? October 30, 2015 . 7 Comments
’Tis the season for ghosts and goblins and creepy crawlies real and imagined … so I want to talk about one of the human mind’s scariest inventions, one nearly all of us believe ... Read More
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Help! I Feel Like I Don’t Deserve My Husband and He’ll Leave October 16, 2015 . 6 Comments
I think you have quite a bit of insight about your problem: your childhood experiences and past relationships have shaped your worldview in such a way that you don’t trust your current ... Read More
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The Truth May Not Set You Free, but Shame Definitely Won’t May 25, 2015 . 8 Comments
Many families have secrets of one sort or another. When she was 80, my mom shared with her eight children, on an individual basis, a secret she had carried for over 60 years. She wanted ... Read More
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The Squeaky Wheel of Anxiety: How to Stop Your Spinning Mind May 20, 2015 . 30 Comments
Sometimes, anxiety feels a lot like riding too fast on a spinning carousel at an amusement park. It takes hold of a particular thought or fear and spins on it nonstop. It’s frustrating ... Read More
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The Fear Factor: What You Don’t Know May Help You May 7, 2015 . 5 Comments
We all love what we know. We can relax about what we know—no surprises! But the fact is that sticking to what we know limits our lives. In almost every aspect of our lives, there is more ... Read More
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Can Sweat Spread Fear and Happiness? Study Suggests So April 28, 2015 . 3 Comments
More than 90% of Americans wear some form of deodorant, helping to fund an $18 billion industry. According to new research published in Psychological Science, though, all those scent-stifling ... Read More