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Three Levels of Fear and What They Mean for Your Happiness April 25, 2014 . 10 Comments
Do you live in fear and anxiety? Do you think they protect you? They may—to a degree. The startle reflex is protective; if we happen to step in front of a moving car, we immediately jump ... Read More
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Your Cell Phone: Friend or Foe? March 11, 2014 . 5 Comments
Today, cell phones and smartphones are a way of life. Most of us use our phones for managing both our personal and work business—keeping track of our appointments, sharing videos or photos ... Read More
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Help! My Inability to Trust Is Destroying My Relationships March 7, 2014 . 7 Comments
Thank you so much for writing, and I’m very sorry to hear about your loss. The short version of my answer is: continue counseling, and make sure it’s the right fit. Ideally, we want ... Read More
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Grow Through Your FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) February 25, 2014 . 7 Comments
FOMO. If you’ve ever checked your Facebook on a Friday night, you’ve probably felt it, even if you’ve never heard of it. It’s an acronym that makes for a handy textspeak shortcut ... Read More
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Anxiety and Relationships: Seven Tips to Improve Communication February 10, 2014 . 4 Comments
Communication is an important aspect of relationships, which can be incredibly complicated. Being in love doesn’t automatically lead to understanding or responding ideally to another ... Read More
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Ever Since My Accident, I Can Barely Go Near a Car. Help! January 17, 2014 . 6 Comments
I am so sorry that you had this frightening experience, which clearly had a profound effect on you. As you well know, neither your fears nor your symptoms will just “fade away” without ... Read More
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Cyberstalking: When One ‘Follower’ Is Too Many January 10, 2014 . 9 Comments
Technology has changed the way we live, do our jobs, even how we interact with people. No longer do we have to wait for news from a family member across the country. With the stroke of ... Read More
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The Power of Touch in the Face of Fear December 23, 2013 . 4 Comments
In the dark days of winter, it is not uncommon for existential concerns to creep in and consume the worried mind. Thoughts of family members, significant others, and friends who have passed ... Read More
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Avoidance in Trauma Survivors: An Interview with Robert T. Muller December 18, 2013 . 7 Comments
Those who have endured trauma experience unique challenges in coping with life after the fact. It may feel as though no one understands the anxiety, depression, nightmares, flashbacks, ... Read More
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The Courage to Work on Yourself November 21, 2013 . 12 Comments
“Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.” – David Richo I think the most courageous acts a human can do are to accept his or her own flaws ... Read More
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Listen to Your Gut, Indeed: Do Bacteria Communicate with the Brain? November 20, 2013 . 3 Comments
We know that the intestines play a critical role in influencing our physical health. Issues associated with gut inflammation, such as diverticulitis, food sensitivities, and obesity, are ... Read More
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Psychological Explanations for Seemingly Paranormal Phenomena October 31, 2013 . 12 Comments
About half of all Americans believe in ghosts, with 22% reporting a personal experience with ghostly phenomena, according to a 2009 CBS News poll. Science and religion have long competed ... Read More