Wendy Eisenberg

MA and Ph.D.

Wendy Eisenberg

MA and Ph.D.

Telehealth Available
Professions: Psychologist, Marriage & Family Therapist, Counselor
License Status: I'm a licensed professional.
Primary Credential: Psychologist
Secondary Credential: Psychologist - 001657
Billing and Insurance:

I don't currently accept insurance, but I can provide documentation if clients wish to submit to an insurance company for "out of network" benefit coverage

Evening Availability


7 Whitney Street Extension #2
Westport, Connecticut 06880

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My Approach to Helping

Here's the thing. The most important aspect of helping another human being is the quality of the relationship between myself and the person who comes to me for help. The cornerstone of healing is mutual authenticity. I consider myself primarily to be an interpersonal psychologist with a strong humanistic style. I believe I am experienced as a "different kind of therapist" because I am much more interested in the person sitting across from me and how they feel about their life than I do about their diagnosis. I know, of course, a diagnosis is valuable but it is only a tiny piece that explains a person's life. People have told me I have an easy way with teenagers as well as children and adults. Essentially, my approach is respectful and interpersonal.

I am not the kind of therapist that supports the model that I know more than you do about yourself. It is quite the opposite. We engage in a dialogue, about your life, your concerns, and your feelings. I get to know you (if you allow it) in a way that you may never have been known by another human being before. It takes a while to trust a stranger, that is healthy...but as time passes we establish mutual goals and put our heads together as we search for new solutions and better life practices.

More Info About My Practice

From the time I was a little girl, I wanted to be a "therapist". All I knew at the time is that "those people" helped others get better. I work with people who are just trying to make a better life for themselves but I also am a skilled psychologist who is experienced with diagnosing and treating psychological disorders when needed. The sauce that makes me different is I am focusing on you, the person, rather than your diagnostic code. Yes, you can see the many categories here on my page that list all my areas of focus...but let me tell you that my most important specialty is YOU, with or without a diagnosis. Regardless of a person's reason for seeking therapy I usually start the first session by asking "Tell me what it is like to be you".
Some therapists make the mistake of missing the human being sitting in front of them because they get too caught up in diagnostic coding and clinical theory. I treat my patients with the same respect I would want for myself or for my own children.

I like it when people tell me "You are the only therapist who has ever really 'gotten' me". That sounds like a good start to me.

Specific Issue(s) I'm Skilled at Helping With

It is important to LIKE your therapist or not much will be accomplished. From the very beginning, see oif they give you time on the phone and explain all of your question. When you get off the phone make sure you have a good-solid feeling about them and in the state of CT make sure they are licensed in the state you will be working with them, for this is not the case in all states. You get this information by calling "The Board of Public Health" in your area.

How Psychotherapy Can Help

Friends don't want to hear about it, family members just make things worse and spouses are often the reason a person is in distress. Unfortunately, seeking the help of a mental health professional is often the only viable choice when a person is searching for someone to help them with a problem that just can't seem to be solved by oneself. Seeking the help of a licensed mental health provider such as a psychologist (that's me!) can offer an in depth and sophisticated point of view regarding many different forms of distress and pain than a well meaning friend. Through the process of exposing oneself to another, a therapist, an entirely new perspective can be realized. You see, trained professionals in this field are not supposed to be your friend, they don't go out to lunch with you. Their main purpose is to help solve the problem you're experiencing and thus find ways to alleviate your suffering. There are some therapists that are masters at what they do and yet are unable to help you. This is because there needs to be an excellent fit between you and the person you choose to help you. If there is no connection or if that connection is weak, very little progress can be made. Research has proven that it is more the quality of the relationship between a therapist and their patient than the techniques or philosophical belief system of the therapist that is the curative factor in a therapeutic relationship.

Services I Provide

  • Clinical Supervision
  • Consultation
  • Family Therapy
  • Group Therapy
  • Individual Therapy & Counseling
  • Marriage, Couples, or Relationship Counseling
  • Mediation
  • Telehealth

Ages I Work With

  • Children
  • Teens
  • Adults
  • Elders


  • English

Groups I Work With

    -Marriage Counseling
    - How to Parent Difficult Kids
    -How to DATE again if desired to
    -Relationship Issues, of all kinds
    -Starting Over when life throws you a hardball
    -The loss of a loved one.

    -Elder Care by YOU or your SPOUSE and what that brings.
    -The Kid who Just doesn\'t fit in.
    -Special Needs Kids- the joys and challenges- how to work the public school system for your child.
    -Marriage and Couples Counseling--What I call \"The Commuter Curse\"
    -Teenagers and bullying--getting your Kids through the High School years and ready for College
    -Surviving Infertility Treatment
    -Mother-in Laws (The difficult ones).

Client Concerns I Treat

  • Abandonment
  • Abortion / Post Abortion Issues
  • Abuse / Abuse Survivor Issues
  • Academic Concerns
  • Addictions and Compulsions
  • Adjusting to Change / Life Transitions
  • Adoption / Reunion Issues
  • Aggression and Violence
  • Agoraphobia
  • Anger
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment Issues
  • Bipolar
  • Blended Family Issues
  • Career Choice
  • Child and/or Adolescent Issues
  • Codependency / Dependency
  • Communication Problems
  • Compulsive Spending / Shopping
  • Control Issues
  • Depression
  • Developmental Disorders (Autism, Aspergers, etc.)
  • Divorce / Divorce Adjustment
  • Domestic Violence
  • Eating and Food Issues
  • Emotional Abuse
  • Emotional Intelligence
  • Emotional Overwhelm
  • Emptiness
  • Family of Origin Issues
  • Family Problems
  • Fear
  • Fertility Issues
  • Forgiveness
  • Gambling Addiction
  • Grief, Loss, and Bereavement
  • Habits
  • Helplessness / Victimhood
  • Identity Issues
  • Inadequacy
  • Inattention, Impulsivity, and Hyperactivity (ADHD)
  • Individuation
  • Infidelity / Affair Recovery
  • Internet Addiction
  • Irritability
  • Isolation
  • Learning Difficulties
  • LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender) Issues
  • Life Purpose / Meaning / Inner-Guidance
  • Men's Issues
  • Midlife Crisis / Midlife Transition
  • Mood Swings / Mood Disturbance
  • Multicultural Concerns
  • Obsessions and Compulsions (OCD)
  • Oppositional and Defiant Behavior in Children and Teen
  • Panic
  • Parenting
  • Phobias
  • Post Partum Depression
  • Posttraumatic Stress / Trauma
  • Pre-Marital Counseling
  • Pregnancy and Birthing
  • Prejudice / Discrimination
  • Relationships and Marriage
  • Religious Issues
  • Self-Care
  • Self-Confidence
  • Self-Criticism
  • Self-Doubt
  • Self-Esteem
  • Self-Harm
  • Self-Love
  • Sensitivity to Criticism
  • Sexual Assault / Abuse
  • Shame
  • Social Anxiety / Phobia
  • Stress
  • Trust Issues
  • Values Clarification
  • Women's Issues
  • Workplace Issues
  • Worry
  • Worthlessness

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
  • Anger Management
  • Body-Mind Psychotherapy
  • Client-Directed Outcome-Informed Therapy (CDOI)
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Collaborative Therapy
  • Conflict Resolution Therapy
  • Contemplative Psychotherapy
  • Depth Therapy
  • Dreamwork
  • Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy (DDP)
  • Emotion Focused Couples Therapy
  • Emotion Focused Therapy
  • Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy
  • Existential Psychotherapy
  • Family Systems Therapy
  • Feminist Therapy
  • Holistic Psychotherapy
  • Human Givens (HG)
  • Humanistic Psychology (humanism)
  • Integral Psychotherapy (IP)
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Interpersonal Psychotherapy (IPT)
  • Journal Therapy
  • Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)
  • Nonviolent Communication (NVC)
  • Object Relations
  • Parent Work
  • Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT)
  • Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian Therapy)
  • Positive Psychology
  • Positive Psychotherapy
  • Psychodynamic
  • Reality Therapy
  • Relational Life Therapy
  • Relational Psychotherapy
  • Relationship Enhancement Therapy
  • Self Psychology
  • Self-Acceptance Training
  • Self-Relations Therapy
  • Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT)
  • Systems Theory /Therapy
  • Transpersonal Psychotherapy

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