My Approach to Helping
I love working with people who are motivated to change their relationship with each other. My work is usually short-term; I see results quickly. I have an ability to see what is happening with a couple's dynamic and share that with the couple in a way they can understand. I am committed to equality and my goal is to help you understand each other so you can love each other in the ways you both want to be loved. You can be happier!
My Role as a Therapist
My role as a therapist is to be an illuminator. My goal is to help you see each other in a different way than you have. It is my experience that understanding what the other person is experiencing, and how they experience you, can create profound and lasting changes that will fundamentally alter the ways you interact with each other for the better. I want to create more love in your world, together. My goal is for you to be able to get through the rut you are in and understand yourself and each other in a way that makes you confident in working out your future problems yourself, without help from anyone else.
The Duration and Frequency of Therapy
I expect that if you're coming to therapy as a couple, you are stuck and really need help either making a change or understanding the other person.
You don't want to spend years in therapy - you want to fix things.
I work in short-term - in my experience, couples committed to figuring things out, can do so with my help within 6-10 sessions, sometimes less.