John Kane


John Kane


Professions: Life Coach, Marriage & Family Therapist, Licensed Professional Counselor
License Status: I'm a therapist practicing under supervision. Supervisor: Dr. Thomas Lucking, LMFT
Primary Credential: AMFT - 109364
Secondary Credential: APCC - 5839
Billing and Insurance:

I don't currently accept insurance, but I can provide documentation if clients wish to submit to an insurance company for "out of network" benefit coverage

Fees: Fees: $150 per 50 minute session $75 per 25 minute session. Sliding scale available for in need clients down to $100 per 50 minute session or $50 per 25 minute session.
Free Initial Consultation
Weekend Availability
Evening Availability


Los Gatos, California 95032

My Approach to Helping

I am a relationships expert. For over 13 years, I have specialized in helping families; parents and children resolve conflict, overcoming challenges, and improve familial and interpersonal relationships. I stay up to date on the latest research and utilize relevant tools to help you get Results!

Through our 911Parenting support, I work with parents step by step to increase emotional connection and relationship with their children while obtaining increased cooperation and family harmony. My unique relationship parenting approach combines evidence-based parenting techniques with a focus on increasing meaningful parent-child relationship.

I specialize in working with Blended families, parents of children with ADHD, Aspergers, Autism, trauma, school refusal, Oppositional Defiant behavior, and general issues of child misbehavior. I also specialize in working with neuro-diverse couples, pre-marital couples, and individual's seeking to improve their relationships.

More Info About My Practice

I offer short and long term therapy or coaching, one-time parent consultations, and help with school and other parenting problems. I also work with third culture kids (TCKS) and those from Hmong Culture, adults with internet addiction, and couples with marital challenges. I offer flexible online therapy support.

If you decide to work with me, you are agreeing to work with me via on Online Therapy format. I use HIPAA compliant video andor phone technologies for all our sessions.

Why Going to Therapy Does Not Mean You are Weak or Flawed

It means you are human. I heard a wise person once say that all of us are on the spectrum of psychological disorders. Yes, its true, even therapists have struggles, and that's why even therapists go to therapy. In fact, one of the requirements of our training is to attend therapy for a period of time so we can experience what it is like being a client.

It takes humility and courage to attend therapy, to face yourself, and be vulnerable to another person who is initially a stranger to you. But therapy is powerful because it allows you to partner with someone else, someone who is outside of your perspective, that can come alongside you and support you in exploring your needs and struggles. With a therapist, you get the opportunity to look at things through some different perspectives you have never thought of before, you have someone who can support you through the change process and be there for you when things are hard, when failure happens, when you need to laugh or cry. Therapy is both a difficult and wonderful process at the same time, and that is why everyone that goes to therapy is courageous!

Services I Provide

  • Coaching
  • Consultation
  • Individual Therapy & Counseling
  • Marriage, Couples, or Relationship Counseling
  • Online Counseling / Phone Therapy
  • Premarital Counseling

Ages I Work With

  • Children
  • Teens
  • Adults
  • Elders

Groups I Work With

    I specialize in working with the following populations:
    parents, children, teenagers, school refusal, ADHD, Aspergers, married couples, pre-marital couples, Neuro Diverse couples, Third Culture Kids, Expatriates, Relief Workers, those working with NGO's (non-government organizations), trauma, Hmong parents, couples, and families.

Client Concerns I Treat

  • Abandonment
  • Addictions and Compulsions
  • Anger
  • Anxiety
  • Blended Family Issues
  • Bullying
  • Caregiver Issues / Stress
  • Child and/or Adolescent Issues
  • Communication Problems
  • Depression
  • Emptiness
  • Family Problems
  • Fear
  • First Responders
  • Forgiveness
  • Grief, Loss, and Bereavement
  • Health / Illness / Medical Issues
  • Helplessness / Victimhood
  • Immigration issues
  • Inattention, Impulsivity, and Hyperactivity (ADHD)
  • Internet Addiction
  • Isolation
  • Life Purpose / Meaning / Inner-Guidance
  • Men's Issues
  • Money and Financial Issues
  • Multicultural Concerns
  • Oppositional and Defiant Behavior in Children and Teen
  • Parenting
  • Posttraumatic Stress / Trauma
  • Pre-Marital Counseling
  • Relationships and Marriage
  • Religious Issues
  • School issues
  • Sensitivity to Criticism
  • Sex Addiction
  • Shame
  • Social Anxiety / Phobia
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Teen violence/dating violence
  • Trust Issues
  • Values Clarification
  • Young Adult Issues

Types of Therapy

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Emotion Focused Couples Therapy
  • Emotion Focused Therapy
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy
  • Family Systems Therapy
  • Integration of different therapy models
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Logotherapy
  • Narrative Therapy
  • Parent Work
  • Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian Therapy)
  • Play Therapy
  • Positive Psychology
  • Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT)
  • Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT)
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