The Good Therapy Blog
May 20th, 2013 |
Children often exhibit behaviors and personality traits that are temporary and do not persist through adulthood. When they cry, pout, or throw a fit, children are expressing their emotions in the only way they know how. As they mature, they develop tools and emotional intelligence so that they can respond to situations in different and more adaptive ways.
But some personality traits and characteristics do persist. Anxiety is one such trait. It may first manifest as shyness in some children, but for... Read More
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May 20th, 2013 |
Anorexia nervosa (AN) is an eating issue that has been shown to be especially hard to treat. Even when clients are admitted for inpatient treatment, diet and nutrition remain significant obstacles for improving outcomes. One reason for this could be inconsistency in diet among hospitals. There is no specific diet regimen designed to improve body mass index, vitamin deficiency, or overall caloric intake for people with... Read More
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May 20th, 2013 |
Everyone wants to believe in forever. Even if we know it’s not real, we hold the hope that our love will prevail, and that our marriages will last a lifetime.
When you got married, you deposited all of your hopes and dreams into your partner and the marriage with the belief that your investment would flourish and grow. You trusted that your return would come in the form of forever.
Now that your marriage is over, you have to reconcile... Read More
May 20th, 2013 |
Have you ever thrown a casual “I miss you,” or “I wish you were here” to your partner when, in that moment, you did not miss them or wish they were with you? Spouses and partners who have been together for some time may find themselves using this form of interaction, called “deceptive affection,” in their relationships on a regular basis. Rather than hurting the other’s feelings, one partner may find it easier and more tactful to say what they think their partner wants to hear. When getting dressed... Read More
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May 20th, 2013 |
Stress reactivity and stress response styles provide insight into emotional vulnerability. Research has indicated that heightened or blunted physiological stress reactions can predict risk for psychological and physical health challenges, including heart disease, depression, anxiety, and behavioral problems. Although there has been a wealth of research examining the stress response of adolescents, little attention has been given to... Read More
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May 20th, 2013 |
What happens to a relationship when one person changes?
“Vanessa” is on a path of self-discovery and change, but that does not mean that her husband, “Mark,” is on the same path. Nor does it mean he wants Vanessa to be on that path or to change who she is. Many times I see couples who come to therapy because someone has changed. “Vanessa didn’t used to be this way,” Mark said. “When we were first married, she liked... Read More
May 17th, 2013 |
Despite radical movement toward women’s equality, domestic violence remains a major stumbling block that prevents many women from feeling safe or achieving full equality with men.
Some studies indicate more women are injured by domestic violence than any by other cause while pregnant, and between 25% and 50% of women will experience... Read More
May 17th, 2013 |
First of all, I’d like to reassure you that transference is often a natural part of therapy. It is understandable that you would develop feelings for someone who is supportive, encouraging, and warm, particularly if the other key relationships in your life are not as satisfying for you as they once may have been. In and of itself, transference isn’t a negative thing—in fact, it can provide a valuable opportunity to gain useful insights and can be used effectively in your sessions.
Where it can get problematic is if it blocks the work, if it brings feelings of shame and guilt that go unresolved,... Read More
May 17th, 2013 |
Shouting, yelling, screaming. Nearly all parents have done it; nearly all children age 10 and under have heard it. In small doses, such as in emergencies, yelling is not believed to be harmful. Yet, as common as this interaction is within families, if it happens too often it can break down positive conflict-management skills and flood a family’s... Read More
May 16th, 2013 |
By the time she was 30 years old, “Roberta” was the mother of a beautiful baby boy she was crazy about—but about her husband “Harry,” the baby’s father, not so much; Roberta had more than enough of Harry. They fought all the time, and Harry was about done with Roberta, too. Their fights started getting physical; once, Harry threw a wooden salad bowl at Roberta, striking her in the chest, but this was an isolated case. Neither of their families provided help of any kind.
She felt like a beast... Read More
May 16th, 2013 |
Those of you who’ve read my chapter in the anthology Goddess Shift: Women Leading for a Change know that I have had plenty of personal experience with depression, and that I have a unique relationship with it. I believe this has been an enormous help to me in helping others with depression. So I thought it might be useful to share some of what I do when I get depressed.
What resolves depression is grieving losses and traumas, changing... Read More
May 15th, 2013 |
Social networking sites (SNS) are the most popular venues for young adults to meet, share information, and communicate. Across the globe, users are staying connected with various SNSs like Facebook. In Japan, the most popular SNS is called “mixi.” With over 25 million users, mixi allows members to join for free, create friendships, and join communities. It also presents a ripe environment for data retrieval. Because so many young adults use mixi, Naoki Masuda of the Department of Mathematical Informatics... Read More
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May 15th, 2013 |
Bipolar is characterized by moods that range from depressive to manic. Evidence suggests that the coping styles people use when depressed, and their response to depressive episodes, can greatly predict the course of bipolar. Depression has been shown to be directly related to high levels of negative affect and low levels of positive affect. Low self-esteem also contributes to depressive symptoms.
No study has examined how symptoms of bipolar are directly influenced by mood, self-esteem, and coping strategies during... Read More
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May 15th, 2013 |
The way we express ourselves to our partners really does matter, especially when we are communicating complaints. A statement that starts with “you” or uses the words “never” or “always” will likely be interpreted as blaming and will beget a defensive response. Once a conversation dissolves into attack-and-defend, the issues at hand will be left unresolved.
Although statements such as “You never put your clothes in the hamper” or “You’re always late” look, feel, and sound like complaints,... Read More
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