If you are struggling with depression, anxiety, grief, relationship struggles, a difficult medical condition, or challenging life transitions, I can help you find a path forward. As a therapist, my goal is to collaborate with clients to sharpen insight, activate hard-earned wisdom, and mobilize self-compassion to make meaningful progress in life.
Relationships — whether with a partner, friend, or family member — can bring stress, uncertainty, and pain.
Maybe you’re going through a breakup and feeling heartbroken. Or you’ve had a few relationships that didn’t work out and you’re starting to feel stuck in a pattern.
Perhaps you and your partner are ar
We all develop patterns to protect ourselves.
Those patterns make sense, they were intelligent adaptations.
But over time, they can keep us stuck.
In our work, we slow things down, get curious about those patterns, understand the attachment needs underneath them, and create space to feel what hasn’t been safe to feel.
When those deepe
Pui Yan (Pauline) Lam, R.P. (sheher)
Pauline is a Registered Psychotherapist with The College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO). She graduated from Queen’s University with a B.A. in Psychology, as well as a M.Div. and a M.T.S from Tyndale University with a major in clinical counselling.
Pauline has extensive experience in
Relationships of any kind can be challenging. I never underestimate how complicated things can get once we tease out the relational pieces in our lives and try to understand how they are affecting us.
Whether you are new to therapy or expericed with it, I will help you dig a little deeper, at your own pace. I want to understand all of you. I wil
If you’re reading this, you’re probably tired—tired of repeating the same patterns, tired of being strong for everyone else, tired of carrying pain that no one ever really saw. Maybe you’re stuck in cycles you can’t break, navigating addiction, trauma, emotional overwhelm, or relationships that leave you drained, and d
Real Life Counselling was created to help individuals deal with the inevitable challenges of life and reduce the associated pain. Our team of trusted associate therapists understands that life doesn't always go as planned and that it's normal to feel stuck at times. Our goal is to guide and encourage you to try new ways of thinking and beha
Feeling sad and unable to figure out why? Constantly worrying about what will happen next? Feeling lost and looking for direction? I can work with you to help you deal with the different pressures and stressors in your life. I meet you where you are and walk alongside you to help you reach your full potential. My focus puts you first and builds a s
Welcome home to yourself.
I believe therapy is a space where you can exhale, feel safe, and truly be seen. In our work together, I offer a warm, non-judgmental space where we can gently explore your story, tend to what’s on your heart, and uncover your strength and resilience.
My approach is holistic. I believe healing happens when we h
I have been a practicing therapist for over 35 years, and continue to feel engaged and passionate about my work. I make use of a wide variety of theories and professional strategies to assist my clients in reaching their goals. As well, I draw on the experience I have gained and the things that I have learned from those I have had the privilege of
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