You keep repeating the same painful patterns in your relationships, no matter who you're with. Maybe you're actively dating, and you find yourself reading into every shift in their tone, chasing reassurance, or losing yourself trying to be who you think they want. Maybe you keep going back to an ex even though it leaves you feeling worse ea
Pui Yan (Pauline) Lam, R.P. (sheher)
Pauline is a Registered Psychotherapist with The College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO). She graduated from Queen’s University with a B.A. in Psychology, as well as a M.Div. and a M.T.S from Tyndale University with a major in clinical counselling.
Pauline has extensive experience in
Relationships of any kind can be challenging. I never underestimate how complicated things can get once we tease out the relational pieces in our lives and try to understand how they are affecting us.
Whether you are new to therapy or expericed with it, I will help you dig a little deeper, at your own pace. I want to understand all of you. I wil
If you’re reading this, you’re probably tired—tired of repeating the same patterns, tired of being strong for everyone else, tired of carrying pain that no one ever really saw. Maybe you’re stuck in cycles you can’t break, navigating addiction, trauma, emotional overwhelm, or relationships that leave you drained, and d
If you’re feeling disconnected in your relationship, overwhelmed by past experiences, or struggling with trauma or posttraumatic stress (PTSD), you’re not alone. I support individuals and couples navigating relationship challenges, women’s issues, and parenting stress. As a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), Certified Trauma
Real Life Counselling was created to help individuals deal with the inevitable challenges of life and reduce the associated pain. Our team of trusted associate therapists understands that life doesn't always go as planned and that it's normal to feel stuck at times. Our goal is to guide and encourage you to try new ways of thinking and beha
Feeling sad and unable to figure out why? Constantly worrying about what will happen next? Feeling lost and looking for direction? I can work with you to help you deal with the different pressures and stressors in your life. I meet you where you are and walk alongside you to help you reach your full potential. My focus puts you first and builds a s
I have been a practicing therapist for over 35 years, and continue to feel engaged and passionate about my work. I make use of a wide variety of theories and professional strategies to assist my clients in reaching their goals. As well, I draw on the experience I have gained and the things that I have learned from those I have had the privilege of
Are you someone who finds yourself overthinking everything, feeling stuck, or unsure about your relationships or where your life is going? On the outside, things may seem okay, but internally it can feel overwhelming, confusing, or even a little lonely, especially if you’re navigating life between cultures or adjusting to a new environment. G
If you're stuck in the same argument with a partner or family member, if you just can't seem to get on the same page or you're still dealing with a hurtful event from the past, I can help you gain clarity and a way out. Come alone or bring your partnerspouse or family member if they're willing and let's get started.
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