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Riding the Waves of Trauma Symptoms
October 15, 2013 .
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Trauma brings with it flashbacks of memory and strong emotions, which are often uncomfortable and difficult to cope with. Typically these symptoms are followed by the fight-or-flight response. ... Read More
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Should We Abolish the Diagnosis of Borderline Personality?
October 15, 2013 .
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The diagnosis of “borderline personality disorder” carries profound stigma for many people. Even some mental health professionals use the term pejoratively, which is not difficult considering ... Read More
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Help! I’m a 23-Year-Old Camp Counselor with a 14-Year-Old Problem October 11, 2013 . 3 Comments
It sounds like this young girl might be stalking you. Follow your instincts here—as you say, this is a very difficult situation, and you were right to let your wife and the other camp ... Read More
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Emotional Outcomes for Child Witnesses to Domestic Violence
October 11, 2013 .
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October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, or a time to begin to understand the effects of domestic violence, which have been researched extensively. Domestic violence is a social problem, ... Read More
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Selfishness, Guilt, and Separation: When Parents Take Precedence
October 10, 2013 .
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“You’re so selfish!” I hear this phrase too frequently when working with people who have trouble with separation and individuation. When children hear from their parents that they ... Read More
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When You’re a Minority in a Majority World
September 25, 2013 .
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I was getting my morning cup of coffee, and while waiting to pay I saw others hand their money to the clerk and leave. When I attempted to do the same, another clerk rudely stated to me ... Read More
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What Turns Us On?
September 23, 2013 .
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Why do some things spark sexual excitement for one person while those same things leave another person quite uninterested? I frequently speak to people who are upset because they’re indulging ... Read More
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Five Lessons I Learned from Visiting the ER with Suicidal Ideation
September 20, 2013 .
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Mental health issues carry such a stigma that few people wish to talk about their experiences at a psychiatric ward. I am learning involuntary commitments are rarely necessary but are frequently ... Read More
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Why Do I Always Seem to Assume the Worst? September 20, 2013 . 38 Comments
I see you understand yourself very well—better than most people do, in fact, and I think your understanding comes from your intellectual abilities, which I believe are way above average. ... Read More
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The Lies We Tell When We Are Depressed
September 19, 2013 .
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Even the most honest people are faced with lying when they are depressed. This is yet another indignity adding to the suffering of depression. The most obvious and pervasive example is ... Read More
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Anger in Relationships: Owning Yours, Softening Your Partner’s
September 19, 2013 .
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is not a sign that your relationship is doomed to fail. Anger is an emotion that we all experience, and it signifies that something has to be done. Anger makes you aware that there is ... Read More
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Watch Out: The Psychological Effects of Mass Surveillance
September 16, 2013 .
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You’re not paranoid if they really are out to get you. More than 50 years after Ernest Hemingway committed suicide, we know that Hemingway was being tracked and hounded by the FBI, ... Read More