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We Got It All Wrong about Gay Relationships
September 19, 2014 .
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You know the stereotypes—gay men aren’t interested in long-term, committed relationships. Or they can’t sustain them. It’s all about sex, the quickies, the one-night stands. Funny ... Read More
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The Formula for Affair Repair: Time, Trust, and Discomfort
September 18, 2014 .
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You find yourself in a fraught situation: your partner has just learned about your affair. Feelings of panic, anxiety, fear, shame, and guilt overwhelm you. You aren’t sleeping well, ... Read More
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5 Good Reasons to Try Co-Parenting Therapy
September 17, 2014 .
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When parents divorce, they sometimes forget that their children didn’t also get a divorce. They still have their two-parent family, even if that family occupies two households instead ... Read More
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The Shadow Effects of Leadership Power
September 16, 2014 .
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Power, the ability to have an effect or to have influence, is our birthright. We all have power and need it to survive, to have relationships, and to be productive. Think how much power ... Read More
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5 Steps to Getting Over a Breakup
September 15, 2014 .
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Going through a breakup is one of the most difficult experiences we can have. Heartache, grief, and confusion, mixed with feelings of powerlessness or even betrayal, can bring out the crazies ... Read More
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Are Feelings of Dread Holding You Hostage?
September 11, 2014 .
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“If I am killed, I can die but once; but to live in constant dread of it is to die over and over again.” —Abraham Lincoln “Something did happen to me somewhere that robbed me of ... Read More
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Is It Enabling or Excessive Altruism? Exploring Codependency
September 10, 2014 .
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Editor’s note: Susan Heitler, PhD is a clinical psychologist specializing in healthy conflict resolution and the author of The Power of Two, a workbook for couples. Her continuing ... Read More
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When Does Protecting Your Kids Become Over-Parenting?
September 9, 2014 .
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A child changes everything. As a parent, you start seeing things from a completely different perspective. Whereas you would not have bothered before about cars driving too fast on a suburban ... Read More
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It’s Good to Be Mad: 5 Ways Anger Actually Serves You
September 8, 2014 .
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Can you understand how a driver might want to ram another car off the roadway in a fit of rage just because he or she was cut off at a light? Maybe that’s even you? If so, you are not ... Read More
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Your Move, Parent: What to Do When Your Teen Is Cutting
September 8, 2014 .
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You look over at your lovely daughter and think to yourself how time flies. Gazing at her with love, you notice red marks and lines on her youthful arms. Immediate panic sets in; you reach ... Read More
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Help! I’m in Love with My Best Friend’s Ex! September 5, 2014 . 39 Comments
Your friend is going to be hurt. There is no way around that. When you made the choice to start hanging out with your best friend’s ex without telling her, that’s when you made ... Read More
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The Trauma of Workplace Stress: How Therapy Can Help
September 5, 2014 .
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Most of us experience work stress, but can too many responsibilities, unrealistic expectations, and personality conflicts at work lead to an experience of trauma victimization over time? In ... Read More