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How Trauma Impacts Your Sense of Self: Part II
July 7, 2010 .
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As discussed in Part I of this series, surviving a traumatic event often results in negative and harsh altered beliefs about yourself. A traumatic event can also impact your sense of worth, ... Read More
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Separated Parents: Six Ways to Manage Holiday Scheduling July 1, 2010 . 3 Comments
Parent #1: It’s already December. We need to decide about Christmas and you had Johnny last year. Why do you think you should have him again this year? Parent #2: You know how important ... Read More
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Doting Mothers Cause Depressed Kids, Once Grown? June 26, 2010 . 15 Comments
Perceived favoritism on the part of a mother can cause long-term psychological effects on all her children well into adulthood, according to new research. Gerontologist Karl Pillemer from ... Read More
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Can a Trial Separation (In the Same House) Help Your Marriage?
June 23, 2010 .
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Are you tired of intense and destructive marital arguing and want it to stop? Do you need some space to think about things more clearly? Are you thinking about a separation but are not ... Read More
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Different Therapy Approaches May Help Different Personality Types June 21, 2010 . 3 Comments
For those battling depression, both cognitive-behavioral therapy and interpersonal psychotherapy have long been recognized as very effective means of overcoming depression. A new study ... Read More
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Hoarding Behavior: Anxious Response or Lazy Lifestyle?
June 21, 2010 .
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If you’ve done any channel surfing at all in the last year or so, you might have come across a couple of documentary shows (Hoarders on A&E; Hoarding, Buried Alive on TLC) featuring ... Read More
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Reasons We Self-Attack
June 14, 2010 .
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This is a continuation of last month’s article, “Are You Your Own Worst Enemy?” After learning to identify self-destructive behavior in ourselves, we can explore why ... Read More
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The Basics of Bullying and How to Stop It June 14, 2010 . 153 Comments
“All cruelty springs from weakness.” —Seneca, 4BC-AD65 There are those who say that bullying is behind all forms of violence, conflict, persecution, abuse, harassment, discrimination, ... Read More
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Offerings and Sacrifices: Honoring Our Ancestors Helps Us Give Thanks
June 9, 2010 .
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As a Yoruba priest, I frequently make offerings to the Orishas (divine spirits who guide our lives) and my ancestors. The type of offering varies, with the simplest being a white candle, ... Read More
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Anger 101 Part III: The Empty Chair
June 2, 2010 .
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The “empty chair” technique is one of my favorite anger tools to use with clients. When I first explain the idea and how it works, I tend to hear people say, “I don’t ... Read More
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Grieving an Acquired Disability
May 26, 2010 .
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The onset of disabling illness or physical or sensory impairment is often accompanied by complicated grief processes, including depression and posttraumatic stress disorder. These grief ... Read More
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Partners of Unemployed People: Take Care of Yourself
May 19, 2010 .
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Unemployment is a downright monster. Most often, we see a lot of support for the unemployed person who is building his or her resume, interviewing, networking, staying busy, and being positive. ... Read More