Esther Lerman

MFT (Marriage and Family Therapist)

Esther Lerman
510-548-6241

Esther Lerman

MFT (Marriage and Family Therapist)

Professions: Marriage & Family Therapist
License Status: I'm a licensed professional.
Primary Credential: Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - 22591
Billing and Insurance:

I don't currently accept insurance, but I can provide documentation if clients wish to submit to an insurance company for "out of network" benefit coverage

Fees: $150 per session, sliding scale available
Evening Availability

Offices

6239 College Ave.
Suite #302
Oakland, California 94618

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My Approach to Helping

Relationships are the fabric of our lives, but they can be so hard!
It doesn't have to be so hard, though. For 29 years I've been helping couples using my guidance, support, insight, humor, and compassion.
There's a lot that can challenge a relationship. If any of the following seem familiar, it's a good time for us to talk.

- Communication problems
- Constant conflicts
- Difficulty in connecting
- Cross-cultural, interracial, inter-religion
- Infidelity
- Difficulty in adapting to being new parents
- Lack of boundaries
- A growing distance between you
- Sexual orientation issues
- Not knowing how to get your needs met
- A sense of boredom
- Feeling lonely when together
Sexuallyintimately disconnected

These are all problems that can be worked through in couples therapy. I can help you to get your relationship back on track and give you greater insight into yourself and your partner.

More Info About My Practice

I find couples therapy to be very rewarding. Couples come in usually in pain, confusion and fear, but after they engage fully in the work they are so much happier. Which makes me happy, too!

My Role as a Therapist

Sometimes people come to couples counseling expecting (sometimes not quite consciously) the therapist to be a kind of judge. As a therapist my job is not to blame either partner or to judge. It is to be there to facilitate mutual empathy and understanding and to actually stop the blaming. I also function as a guide or a teacher, facilitating communication between the two people and occasionally giving "homework" (if the couple wants it).

Services I Provide

  • Marriage, Couples, or Relationship Counseling

Ages I Work With

  • Adults
  • Elders

Languages

  • English

Groups I Work With

    I work with adults of any age in relationships of all backgrounds, ethnicities, religions, sexual orientations and relationship modes (e.g., polyamory). I work with many cross-cultural couples.

Client Concerns I Treat

  • Abandonment
  • Adjusting to Change / Life Transitions
  • Aging and Geriatric Issues
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment Issues
  • Blended Family Issues
  • Caregiver Issues / Stress
  • Codependency / Dependency
  • Communication Problems
  • Control Issues
  • Depression
  • Emotional Overwhelm
  • Family of Origin Issues
  • Family Problems
  • Fertility Issues
  • Forgiveness
  • Grief, Loss, and Bereavement
  • Identity Issues
  • Infidelity / Affair Recovery
  • LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender) Issues
  • Life Purpose / Meaning / Inner-Guidance
  • Men's Issues
  • Multicultural Concerns
  • Polyamory / Nonmonogamous Relationships
  • Pre-Marital Counseling
  • Relationships and Marriage
  • Women's Issues

Types of Therapy

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Collaborative Couple Therapy (CCT)
  • Developmental Model of Couples Therapy
  • Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy
  • Family Systems Therapy
  • Gottman Method
  • Imago Relationship Therapy (IRT)
  • Integration of different therapy models
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational Psychotherapy
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