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How Can We Convince My Sister to Dump Her Loser Boyfriend? December 18, 2015 . 14 Comments
I hear your love and concern for your sister. There is nothing more painful than watching someone you love make choices you believe are harmful. Unfortunately, they are her choices. You ... Read More
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Study: Fear of Spiders May Be Cured in Two Minutes
December 16, 2015 .
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At least 30% of Americans have a fear of spiders, or arachnophobia. According to a new study published in Biological Psychiatry, just two minutes of therapy could eradicate that fear. For ... Read More
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How to Improve Communication with Effective Listening Skills
December 15, 2015 .
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Effective and meaningful communication is vital to human growth and function. However, the 21st century’s emphasis on speed has often produced quick results at the expense of quality ... Read More
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Help! Is It Time for Some ‘Tough Love’ with Our Teenage Son? December 11, 2015 . 8 Comments
Thank you for your question, which sounds like just about every parent’s nightmare—one that’s more common than you might think. For me, the key to the answer is in your last two questions. ... Read More
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When Memories Hurt: Living with Loss During the Holidays
December 11, 2015 .
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As the holidays and end of the year approach, many experience the recurrence of grief as they remember happy times with a deceased loved one. Loss and grief are among the most powerful ... Read More
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Women with Sex Addiction: Observations in Recovery
December 10, 2015 .
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It has been more than 30 years since Dr. Patrick Carnes published his book, Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction, which introduced the concept of sexual addiction. One working ... Read More
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Dealing with Depression: Why ‘Get Over It’ Doesn’t Work
December 8, 2015 .
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In the face of our depressed moods, friends, loved ones, and even our therapists may say things like, “Stop doing that to yourself!” or “Get over it!” We may even say to ourselves, ... Read More
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Why ‘Toughen Up’ Doesn’t Cut It with Children and Teens
December 7, 2015 .
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So often when I ask people in my therapy office (mostly children and teens) to brainstorm strategies for coping with certain difficult situations, the initial answer I get is something ... Read More
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8 Ways to Make Sex More Enjoyable While Trying to Conceive
December 4, 2015 .
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Many couples experience a surge in sexual excitement and activity when they begin to try for a baby. They may be suddenly free from hormonal birth control methods or the barrier sensation ... Read More
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Understanding Dissociation and When It Becomes Problematic
December 3, 2015 .
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We’ve all had moments where we felt completely spaced out. What is normal, and when do instances of mental escape become a cause for concern? Dissociation, or the feeling of being disconnected ... Read More
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A Codependency Tale: The Wife Who Refused to Bury Her Husband
December 2, 2015 .
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Most of us take care of others at some point, sometimes putting their needs first or focusing on helping them out of tight situations. In the 1930s, the term “codependent” was ... Read More
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How to Recover from the Stagnation and Deadness of Isolation
December 1, 2015 .
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If you tend to isolate from others, you may notice it’s a double-edged sword: isolating can provide needed relief from anxiety (and other strong feelings), yet it can cause you to feel ... Read More