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Communication Modes: The Benefits of Being Assertive
August 23, 2010 .
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When we relate to others, there are three modes we can utilize. However, most of us probably predominantly behave and communicate in one of these modes. Submissive mode is a way of communicating ... Read More
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Social Networking and Sex Addiction Challenges
August 12, 2010 .
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Social Networking is a great way to connect with so many individuals! It connects you with your family, friends from the past, current friends, and even allows you to make new friends. ... Read More
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Six Tips to Make Marriage and Couples Counseling Work July 23, 2010 . 26 Comments
What can you do to improve the chances that couples therapy is worth the time and money you put into it? In other words, what makes marriage counseling work? With the help of a skilled ... Read More
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Relationships and the Importance of Reciprocity
July 12, 2010 .
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Most of us do not consciously think about reciprocity in our intimate relationships. When we do, we might say, “Of course it is important.” Like the Golden Rule, we recognize ... Read More
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Can a Trial Separation (In the Same House) Help Your Marriage?
June 23, 2010 .
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Are you tired of intense and destructive marital arguing and want it to stop? Do you need some space to think about things more clearly? Are you thinking about a separation but are not ... Read More
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Partners of Unemployed People: Take Care of Yourself
May 19, 2010 .
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Unemployment is a downright monster. Most often, we see a lot of support for the unemployed person who is building his or her resume, interviewing, networking, staying busy, and being positive. ... Read More
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Compromise in Couples: What Gets in the Way?
May 18, 2010 .
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Lots of people hope for compromise in their relationship. Compromise is great when it happens; there is an easy flow, and both partners feel happy with the results. Nobody feels like they ... Read More
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Communication and Arguments: “Being Right” vs. “Being in a Relationship”
April 29, 2010 .
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Fighting verbally is an integral part of any relationship. Put at least two people together in the same place for a long period of time, and they’ll fight eventually. If someone tells ... Read More
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Individual Versus Couple Therapy: What Format Is Best for Marital Problems
April 6, 2010 .
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The Textbook of Family and Couples Therapy describes the three “most common types of couples therapy”: Individual therapy; Conjoint couples therapy; and Combined couples therapy In ... Read More
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When Women are the Financial Breadwinners
March 29, 2010 .
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When might earning more feel like making less for women? When it comes with the emotional baggage of being the primary breadwinner in a culture where men are expected to bring home the ... Read More
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Infidelity: Consequences of Punishing the Offending Partner
March 10, 2010 .
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In this article I want to focus on one particular aspect of recovering from an affair: punishing the offending partner. I am frequently asked, “How long is this pain going to last?!” ... Read More
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Why Do Partners Abuse Each Other?
March 2, 2010 .
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Recent estimates put the annual number of intimate partner violence (IPV) incidents in the United States at around 8 million. That is, 8 million men and women in the U.S. experience partner ... Read More