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How Do I Tell My Girlfriend That Her Teenage Daughter Is an Issue? November 28, 2014 . 11 Comments
It sounds like there are two main issues for you right now: managing your feelings and hesitation about dating someone with a teenage daughter, and dealing with your fears about how your ... Read More
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Could a Bad Marriage Literally Break Your Heart?
November 26, 2014 .
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A broken heart has become synonymous with the pain of romantic rejection and bad relationships. According to a new Michigan State University study, though, a bad marriage could quite literally ... Read More
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Why Hiding Who We Are Hurts Us
November 20, 2014 .
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In my first meeting with Nora and Jeff, Nora told me (actually, she was yelling and crying): “He’s so passive, he’s driving me crazy. Jeff never lets me know what he’s thinking. ... Read More
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How Couples Therapy Can Help Heal Childhood Wounds
November 18, 2014 .
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Do you want to build a case about how your partner is wrong and defective or do you want to repair the relationship? So many people come to my office wanting to convince me how wrong and/or ... Read More
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Infatuation in My Forties: Was It a Midlife Crisis?
November 16, 2014 .
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Just over three years ago I considered myself happily married and content to grow older gracefully. I was 46, working hard as a senior school teacher and raising two teenage girls. My husband, ... Read More
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How Jealousy and Depression Led Me to Spy on My Husband
November 9, 2014 .
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The matter of trust is always a burning issue, especially nowadays when technology has taken over the bigger part of our lives. With the development of social media, we forgot how to talk ... Read More
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5 Reasons You Hate Your Partner
November 3, 2014 .
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Even people who have happy relationships spend a lot of time having negative thoughts about their partner. Here’s why: You have a fantasy about how your partner should be. You are a ... Read More
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Should I Give My Emotionally Abusive Husband Another Chance? October 24, 2014 . 179 Comments
You are in a tough spot. You have been married for 16 years, and of course there’s a part of you that would love to see him change and spare all of you the challenges that come with ... Read More
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How to Talk to Your Partner about Your Affair
October 22, 2014 .
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The initial aftermath of affair exposure is a critical time in the life of an intimate relationship. What you say or don’t say can make a big difference in the outcome of your partnership. Let’s ... Read More
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I’m OK, You’re Not OK … and That’s Perfectly OK
October 17, 2014 .
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Have you ever been in a situation where you’re in a good mood, but then you talk to a friend who’s not doing so well and suddenly you feel conflicted? You want to support your friend, ... Read More
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The Stages of a Relationship (and the Purposes They Serve)
October 15, 2014 .
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Many people believe that if you meet the right person and fall in love, you are meant to be with this person. That there won’t be anything you will ever want to change about them. That ... Read More
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Divorce Rates Similar among Gay and Straight Couples
October 9, 2014 .
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Opponents of gay marriage have periodically argued that gay marriage is fundamentally different and that gay couples are more likely to break up. According to a new study, though, gay marriage ... Read More