Some College Men Fail to Tell Sexual Interest from Consent

A woman pulls away from a man's hug.Recent lawsuits have drawn attention to the epidemic of sexual abuse on college campuses. Cisgender men are the primary perpetrators of this abuse. According to new research published in the Journal of Interpersonal Violence, one reason for this might be college men’s poor understanding of sexual consent.

Rape Myths and Confusion About Consent

Researchers interviewed 145 college-aged men attending a large university in the Southeast. They presented participants with a series of hypothetical sexual situations between a man and woman (only heterosexual relationships were studied). Then they asked the men questions about sex, sexual interest, and consent.

Men often failed to distinguish between sexual interest and sexual consent. Situational factors affected their perception more strongly than their own personal characteristics. Despite earnest attempts to determine consent, some men relied on questionable sexual scripts.

How the woman in the story communicated her desires had the largest effect on men’s perceptions. Men were more likely to accept clear verbal refusals than passive cues. However, some factors caused men to override even clear verbal refusals.

Men were more likely to ignore the woman’s verbal refusal if she had previously had sex with the man in the story. They would equate past sexual behavior with consent for future acts. This phenomenon is called the precedence effect.

Men who believed in rape myths (like the idea that women say no when they mean yes) were more likely to assume the woman consented to sex. Men with hypermasculine ideals also tended to misread sexual signals.

Mistaking Friendliness for Sexual Interest

A 2008 study found that college-age men may also struggle to distinguish friendliness from sexual interest. Researchers showed college students images of friendly faces and flirtatious faces. Male and female students misidentified friendly faces as flirtatious 12% and 8% of the time, respectively. Both genders were more likely to mistake sexual interest for friendliness (37% for men, 31% for women).

The researchers suggest that men do not oversexualize their environments. Rather, they may be less able to read nonverbal cues. But even then, the difference between genders was small. Any disparity in social skills is unlikely to account of gender differences in sexual assault statistics.

The experience of sexual violence is strongly correlated with mental health challenges. People who have been sexually abused may develop posttraumatic stress (PTSD), anxiety, depression, and other mental health concerns. It is vital people receive thorough education about the nature of sexual consent in order to prevent rape and other sexual violence.

References:

  1. Lofgreen, A.M., Mattson, R.E., Wagner, S.A., Ortiz, E.G., & Johnson, M. D. (2017, November 2). Situational and dispositional determinants of college men’s perception of women’s sexual desire and consent to sex: A factorial vignette analysis. Journal of Interpersonal Violence. Doi:10.1177/0886260517738777
  2. Some men confuse sexual interest with consent regardless of the situation, new study shows. (2017, November 27). EurekAlert. Retrieved from https://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2017-11/bu-smc112717.php
  3. The untrained eye: Confusing sexual interest with friendliness. (2008, April 2). Science Daily. Retrieved from https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/04/080401081904.htm

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  • Tara

    Tara

    December 13th, 2017 at 9:57 AM

    Doesn’t surprise me one bit sadly think of Brock Turner

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