Providing Support for People with Breast Cancer

Hand wearing pink wristbandRecent advancements in breast cancer screening and treatment are helping more people beat this potentially deadly disease than ever before. However, a diagnosis of breast cancer, no matter what stage it is in, is devastating for that person and his or her family.

Luckily, there is more access than ever to organizations that can provide much-needed emotional support for those with breast cancer and their families. With renewed hope comes a better quality of life.

Coping with the Emotional Turmoil

Following diagnosis, most women struggle with feelings of isolation and even impending doom. Unfortunately, some health care providers can be insensitive to the emotional impact that a diagnosis can have. This only leads to more feelings of hopelessness, anxiety, and depression for those with breast cancer.
Complementary therapies can help bridge the physical and emotional aspects of breast cancer treatment in order to help treat the whole person and not just the disease itself. A woman who has been told she has breast cancer is dealing with fear that strikes deep and can cause unyielding levels of stress. Studies have shown that this can lead to a worse prognosis, so it is important to include effective stress-reduction therapy as a part of any successful breast cancer treatment.

In fact, a research team from Harvard Medical School found that when people with breast cancer practiced a simple, repetitive prayer, phrase, word, or even sound and then worked to ignore their more intrusive feelings, they could evoke a stable relaxation response. These simple actions have proven to be quite an effective therapy for the symptoms of cancer.

Seeking Help from Support Groups

Various studies have shown that people with breast cancer tend to live longer when they have participated in support groups as opposed to coping with the emotional aspects of this disease on their own. Breast cancer survivors can serve as an incredible source of hope for women who are undergoing treatment. This allows them an opportunity to talk with someone who has experienced the type of feelings that they are struggling with. It’s the type of emotional support that only someone who has had breast cancer can fully understand and adequately provide.

Christine Druther’s Story

Christine Druther is the founder of Her2Support.org, which helps people who have been diagnosed with HER2, a particularly aggressive form of cancer often given a relatively poor prognosis. Despite recurrences, Christine was victorious in her struggle with HER2 breast cancer and now works to help educate other people with breast cancer about becoming an active member in their treatment. She wants them to be able to take charge.
Christine started her website after the turn of the millennium. At the time, people with breast cancer who were HER2-positive were mostly pitied by their doctors. At the time of her own diagnosis, Christine was not able to find much available information on HER2 breast cancer. Even more shocking was that most of the information she did find detailed survival in terms of only months, not years. This type of outlook would test the resolve of even the strongest people.

Still, she stuck with her cancer treatment and persevered through the debilitating effects of chemotherapy and radiation. Then, in 2001, she received incredible news from her oncologist: She was cancer-free!

It was at this time that she realized that there must be many other women who were coping with the same things she was and, like she had been, were in desperate need of help and support. Christine wanted to create a website that could provide these women with access to the information she had collected while battling breast cancer. This would become a peer-supported organization where people with breast cancer and survivors could share information or stories, while also having access to all the latest research. Today her site serves as an invaluable resource for people with breast cancer, regardless of what type they have.

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  • Miller

    January 15th, 2013 at 12:51 PM

    Being diagnosed can send the strongest of us into stress.And as much as I would like to suggest therapy for this,I think full blown therapy can make the person think they have yet another problem and thus the therapy.So the primary healthcare professional treating the problem should himself be well equipped to offer advice and solutions to what the patient may be going through.

    And other avenues are open anyway.Going for full fledged therapy may not be the best thing after all!

  • blaine r

    January 15th, 2013 at 12:57 PM

    When you receive support from someone who really understands the depth and complexity of what you are going through, that can make all the difference in the world.
    Of course it feels good to have anyone support you, but sometimes it means even more when it comes from someone who has been there and is so aware of the feelings that you are feeling/.

  • toni

    January 15th, 2013 at 11:53 PM

    blaine:you are absolutely right there..never is it more soothing than to have someone who has been there done that talk to you..its like having someone who has walk on the same path as you before,a mysterious and stressful path.

    I thought having an accident and ending up in bed for a couple of weeks was bad enough.the stress and even trauma that could come with a diagnosis of cancer can be devastating.

  • Bridget m

    January 16th, 2013 at 4:02 AM

    What about those people who don’t think that they need help?

    Those are the friends and family members who drive me crazy- you try to reach out and do something good for them, and they just rebuff all your efforts.

    They somehow have it in their heads that this is something that they can battle on their own and don’t need the help from anyone else.

    I just want to say hey, maybe I don’t know exactly what you feel but I know enough to know that we all need someone who cares in times like these. Why not let me help?

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