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When Girls Are Bullies
November 28, 2011 .
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Do you remember your first bully—the girl who called you fat, mocked your choice in clothes, or spread false rumors about you? Of course you do. It’s like a first kiss, a first ... Read More
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Negative Body Image Leads Some to Excessive Exercise November 28, 2011 . 7 Comments
There are styles of thinking that are commonly related to anxiety and unhappiness. One patterned way of thinking that is identified by therapists who work with cognitions is the all-or-nothing ... Read More
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Friendships Reduce the Risk of Being Bullied November 22, 2011 . 10 Comments
Being the target of bullying can cause a child to internalize and experience a decrease in self-worth. Many children who are victims of bullying become isolated and withdrawn, and often ... Read More
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Sex Addiction is a Relational Disorder November 21, 2011 . 21 Comments
I’m struck by the fact that people with addiction issues, when confronted with the destructive effects of their behaviors, often find it harder to stop. This is especially true, in my ... Read More
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Repressive Coping Increases Risk of Hypertension and other Diseases November 17, 2011 . 6 Comments
Repressive coping is a strategy of self-protection that involves dismissing or ignoring strong emotions. People who use repression as a means of coping often do so out of self-defense and ... Read More
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Self-Esteem Influences How We Perceive Our Failures November 15, 2011 . 11 Comments
Failure is a part of life. How an individual perceives their failure gives an indication of their overall sense of well-being and adjustment. Reflecting on past failures through imagery ... Read More
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How Do Depression and Attachment Affect Emotional Disclosure? November 13, 2011 . 9 Comments
Sharing emotional experiences, or engaging in emotional disclosure, can be a cathartic process, resulting in reductions in stress, anxiety and tension. “In an opposite manner, the active ... Read More
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Following in a Parent’s Footsteps
November 7, 2011 .
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“Like father, like son.” “Like mother, like daughter.” These sentiments are often expressed with great joy and pride. Many parents are delighted and honored when ... Read More
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Therapy Is Not a Place for Romance November 4, 2011 . 27 Comments
If Hollywood is an indicator of our most common fantasies, modern Americans want to sleep with their therapists. I am horrified that so many television shows and movies depict romantic ... Read More
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Living With Frustration in a Relationship November 3, 2011 . 7 Comments
Many couples I work with come in with a large amount of stress and difficulty. The causes vary, but the behaviors people use to respond to the upset are often predictable. People who start ... Read More
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The Pursuit of Happiness: Internal or External? November 1, 2011 . 2 Comments
According to Randy P. Auerbach of Harvard Medical School, McLean Hospital, positive feelings and feelings of happiness are the result of intrinsic pursuits. “Intrinsically-motivated goals ... Read More
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How Parents Make it Difficult for Children to Love Their Other Parent
November 1, 2011 .
27 Comments
There are many ways one parent can influence how children perceive their other parent. This is often a positive experience for children, as they learn to appreciate both of their parents ... Read More