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Terrified People Pleasers: Why Can’t I Love and Be Loved?
December 21, 2016 .
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People pleasing is a way to reduce anxiety and eliminate stress. Some please to assure good feelings that come with positive responses like being approved of, admired, praised, or respected. ... Read More
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Do Lies About Santa Harm Parent-Child Relationships?
December 13, 2016 .
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For those who celebrate Christmas, lying to children about the existence of Santa could harm parents’ relationships with their children, according to an essay published in The Lancet ... Read More
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5 Ways to Release Your Anger and Embrace Forgiveness
December 13, 2016 .
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We all experience love in one form or another. We all experience hurt and pain. It’s part of the human condition. Likewise, people can be insensitive sometimes. They say or do things ... Read More
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How to Help Children Grieve the Death of a Parent
December 12, 2016 .
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From the time children are born, they count on their parents to provide a sense of safety as they learn about the complex world around them. When a parent dies, it may create intense emotional ... Read More
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Help! I’m a Natural Flirt, but It’s Hurting My Partner December 9, 2016 . 14 Comments
Dear GoodTherapy.org, My husband and I have been together for five years and have a great marriage that includes a very satisfying and active sex life. I’ve never cheated on him, ... Read More
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How ‘Helicopter Parenting’ May Be Helping Your Kids
December 7, 2016 .
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There have been countless articles—including some of my own—about the hazards of so-called “helicopter parenting,” the current trend of over-watchful, over-involved child rearing ... Read More
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How to Deal with an Angry Partner: 8 Therapist-Approved Strategies
December 6, 2016 .
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If your partner’s anger leaves you feeling drained, hurt, or unsure how to respond, you’re not alone. Many people in relationships struggle to navigate intense emotions in ways that ... Read More
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‘I Don’t Know Who I Am’: Establishing Your Sense of Self
December 5, 2016 .
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As we grow and develop from children to young adults, we listen and learn from the world and others around us. When others listen to and learn from us, we learn that our needs are valid ... Read More
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Do I Need to Give My Kids an Allowance? December 2, 2016 . 6 Comments
Dear GoodTherapy.org, My oldest child is 7, and many of his friends receive an allowance from their parents for doing chores around the house. I never gave the idea of an allowance much ... Read More
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Study: Parenting Style Matters Most for Difficult Children
December 1, 2016 .
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Parenting style can affect behavior in any child, but matters most for children with “difficult” temperaments, according to a study published in the journal Psychological Bulletin. ... Read More
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Career Counseling: How to Develop the Right References
November 30, 2016 .
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The job-search process can be a nightmare for the already paranoid among us. Personal information is routinely mailed and blasted out to unknown parties every day; sometimes you send the ... Read More
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Should We Break Up? 5 Factors to Consider Before Ending It
November 29, 2016 .
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While it’s inevitable that couples experience ups and downs over the course of a long-term relationship, there are times when conflict can reach a critical point and the prospect of a ... Read More