Introjection, one of many defense mechanisms posited by Sigmund Freud, occurs when a person internalizes the ideas or voices of other people. This behavior is commonly associated with the internalization of external authority, particularly that of parents.
What Is Introjection?
Introjection is the opposite of projection. Projection occurs when a person projects feelings or characteristics onto another person. Introjection, which is common among children and parents, occurs when a person internalizes the beliefs of other people. A child might take on elements of parents’ personalities or beliefs by adopting their political ideology, concept of right and wrong, or ideas about sex. When people introject, they identify with a person or object so strongly that they cannot separate that person or object from themselves.
Introjections involve attitudes, behaviors, emotions, and perceptions that are usually obtained from influential or authoritative people in one’s life. They are neither digested nor analyzed; they are simply adopted as a part of one’s personality as concepts that one considers should be believed or behaviors that one thinks ought to be followed. Introjections do not involve an individual’s personal integrity or morality.
How the Environment Affects Introjection
A person may absorb the characteristics or attitudes of subjects in the immediate surroundings. While caregivers are usually the first people whose attitudes a young child may adopt, the moral code and behaviors of teachers and peers may also significantly influence a child’s value system. These influences may conflict with the values that caregivers wish to promote, and they may be particularly strong in the period before the child learns to self-govern and develop individual beliefs and personality. For example, a boy who is usually cheerful at home may begin to kick his dog and pick on his younger sister after experiencing bullying at school.
Introjection as a Defense Mechanism
Freud characterized introjection as a mature defense mechanism that is commonly used by psychologically healthy people. Some mental health professionals believe that introjection is a protective strategy that children employ in order to cope with unavailable parents or guardians: By unconsciously absorbing the characteristics of parents, children reassure themselves that some aspect of the parent is present even if the parent is physically absent. Depending on the types of attitudes that are picked up, introjection may lead to positive or negative effects.
Possible Positive Effects of Introjection
A person may introject positive traits and beliefs such as compassion, loyalty, morality, or a desire to help the poor. Introjection may also help an individual to cope with separation or even the loss of loved ones. For example, exclamations that a daughter says something “just like her mother,” following the death of the mother, may elicit vivid, happy memories. Introjection may also foster a sense of responsibility if an inexperienced youth is determined to do things “just like Dad.”
Possible Negative Effects of Introjection
Introjections may also have negative connotations. A child exposed to negative parenting may constantly feel worthless, incompetent, or guilty, feel unable to freely express emotion, and find it difficult to discover identity or a sense of self. With this obstacle to self-development in place, a child may begin to lose confidence and may also become self-critical.
Introjection may lead individuals to pay an inordinate amount of attention to the beliefs of others rather than their own personal needs.Another negative effect of introjection is the internal conflict that may arise from attempts to reconcile different or incongruous concepts. For example, a child who idolizes and copies the “ideal” father may experience inner turmoil upon discovery that the father was involved in criminal activity. An individual may also experience internal conflict if, deep down, that person does not truly agree with the attitudes adopted from other individuals.
Introjection may lead individuals to pay an inordinate amount of attention to the beliefs of others rather than their own personal needs. Some teenagers may focus entirely on upholding parental beliefs and fulfilling expectations rather than making their own decisions about the future. A person in a relationship may internalize the other partner’s comments about appearance and behavior and begin to act in that manner.
Negative introjection can also be part of a cycle of abuse. A person in an abusive relationship, for example, might begin to believe the claims of a partner who is abusive and internalize feelings of worthlessness or failure. In some cases, the victim might introject the abuser’s personality so strongly that the victim then becomes an abuser. The support of a therapist or other mental health professional may help mitigate the effects of abuse and prevent this from happening.
Therapy for Negative Introjection
It is possible for a person to overcome negative internalizations with therapy. Psychoanalysis may be used to uncover and resolve deep-seated unconscious material, even when it has been buried since childhood. Therapists may also employ cognitive behavioral therapy to help people analyze negative beliefs and gradually replace these beliefs with more realistic and accurate thoughts.
Negative introjections may contribute to mental health conditions such as depression and anxiety. When this is the case, therapy may also be helpful in addressing and treating these conditions. With the help of a mental health professional, a person may often be able to address and resolve the effects that negative introjections have had and develop strategies to avoid being further affected in the future.
- Defense mechanism of the week: Introjection. (2012, January 19). Jennifer De Francisco. Retrieved from http://www.jenniferdefrancisco.com/defense-mechanisms/defense-mechanism-of-the-week-introjection
- Definition: Introjection. (n.d.). Purdue University. Retrieved from http://www.cla.purdue.edu/english/theory/psychoanalysis/definitions/introjection.html
- Projection and introjection. (n.d.). ChangingMinds.org. Retrieved from http://changingminds.org/disciplines/psychoanalysis/concepts/projection_introjection.htm
Last Updated: 10-6-2015
AliFebruary 7th, 2015 at 12:31 AM
Great explanation about this phenomenon but what can be done about it?
lucindaJanuary 12th, 2020 at 8:43 AM
in AF-EMDR, we work specifically on the maternal or paternal introject, and we find that when we use them as the focus of the EMDR therapy, even though it is the patient doing the actual EMDR, that the negative impacts of the introject are finally processed and the patient is able to separate themselves – very often with compassion – from the unconscious introject.
ClaireNovember 12th, 2015 at 1:01 AM
Thanks for the sharing
ChuckJanuary 31st, 2016 at 11:00 AM
Employing deep feeling therapy will increase cognitive awareness of the introject to increase cognitive seperation of the introject and make a choice of behaviors…
OluwatoyinJune 10th, 2016 at 7:07 AM
This is very insightful, thanks.
deborahOctober 29th, 2016 at 8:45 AM
i didn’t understand this until I was in a relationship with such introjection . it really limits self-growth and awareness. And yes abuse seems to be the only way gain some feeling of self worth. i should be talked about as much as projection
JaneNovember 5th, 2016 at 8:29 PM
Thank you for making it more understandable.
JayDecember 5th, 2016 at 8:46 AM
I am in the throes of recovering from intense long-term negative introjection via a very inadequate mother who happened to be a malignant narcissist; which is a double whammy. This is not easy all and is a constant work in progress trying to take back my power by challenging and replacing the zillions of negative teachings and false beliefs bestowed onto my psyche. I realize now, she wanted me to be a true extension of herself by never feeling deserving, fulfilled, happy, content, etc. I bought into it for so long and am still scared I will actually become her! I idolized her, but learned I was trying to keep a wish and fantasy alive because I wanted a mother and needed a parent. She was nothing I thought she was. Her manipulating and calculating/conniving ways were honed so well. I see it very clearly now. Today it’s kicking strongly. The self criticism is off the charts. I try to do accurate self talk and fight back with what is true and what is not. She did a lot of damage, but the great thing is now my awareness is heightened and I can take action and separate her garbage from my reality. I am not her. I am me and I am making great strides, albeit some days it is really difficult. I catch myself complying with her wishes to become her and start to turn into her. She wanted me to fail at life. She would hate my therapist too. I really think she was jealous of me. It is insidious to be raised by such a non-nurturing emotionally abusive mother, but I am fighting back and it feels good to see the light. I am learning to allow myself to feel happy and trying to develop self compassion, working through the shame and thinking for myself. I am learning to challenge authority and that feels awesome. I am slowly coming into my own. Real change takes time but it can be done and I believe it is constant work in progress. I working on momentum now and once I gain enough, there will be no turning back.
Amy LynnOctober 15th, 2019 at 1:22 PM
I could swear that you are my brother. I wish you all the best that life on this dimension has to offer. You are meant to be so much more than you know. Allow yourself to ascend this life. You’re extremely lucky to have gained such enlightenment despite the situation you were born into. Perhaps you can open yourself to an idea that maybe, just maybe, you chose to be born to this person in order to grow spiritually. I believe we choose our parents so that we may grow our spirit. This may be beneficial for you to move forward and foster enlightenment. What core principle exists here? What might you have been trying to become better at? Compassion? Empathy? Keep in mind that the ones who harm us have themselves been deeply traumatized at some point in their lives.
I truly believe that all the problems affecting the human race are caused by a lack of empathy. Although it isn’t as simple as ‘all you need is love’. Defense mechanisms adopted by our vulnerable selves present an especially difficult barrier in respect to the willingness to meet opposition with understanding rather than fear.
MartieJanuary 27th, 2017 at 12:53 AM
Well explained in understandable descriptions. Thank you. Keep up the good work
The HumanJune 7th, 2019 at 9:37 PM
Negative introjection as a defense mechanism when being raised by parents who have varying degrees of narcissistic traits, reveals an uncanny position to be in once concious of it. I introjected a facade to stay in line, follow the family code so-to-speak, and now it has been a enduring process of rediscovering who I am.
On one hand that is absolutely relieving to know i can be my truth… On the other hand, for so long i’ve played the introjected characters, it is who people have known me by, especially the narcissistic parents.. Seeing has they (parents) are unable to look to their inner-self and allow the true me in, there is now a twisted game of attempting to psychologically make me look like I’m crazy and hypnotised…
How does one attempt to maturely bridge this conscious awareness to narcissists who were the sole reason behind my own use of introjection as a defense mechanism?
What a great question. The only mode of action is not a battle mindset.. I can’t barter with a narcissist, i can’t intentionally change their mindset about the unfoldment of my true self.. Unless the rest of my family are able to think for themselves, they too will perceive me through the eyes of the narcissists..
Sovereignty is my ally.
Ubine XApril 1st, 2020 at 5:01 PM
I think this is what I suffer from, because my mother literally does stupid things and I have done so too. How does one get rid of this? Overbearing and malfunction during cord cutt.
JulesJune 11th, 2020 at 12:23 AM
So reassuring to realise I am not alone here !
PamelaApril 27th, 2023 at 8:02 AM
It would be interesting to hear about what happens in extreme old age when all the people one has introjected
die. It is a strange feeling when all your analysts and therapists die before you do.
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