Managing Your Emotions Through Dialectical Behavior Therapy

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is a comprehensive, evidence-based treatment approach used to treat individuals with a wide variety of issues, including relationship conflict, anxiety, depression, bipolar, self-injury, eating issues, and substance abuse. Developed in the 1980s by psychologist Marsha M. Linehan for the treatment of borderline personality disorder and chronic suicidality, this method has since been adapted and utilized to help clients with much less severe issues. The therapy can help clients who exhibit extreme emotional reactions, helping them develop self-acceptance while also learning coping skills to better regulate their emotions and handle distress. DBT uses both individual therapy sessions and group skills training, as well as telephone coaching between sessions.

The DBT model combines a behavioral therapy approach with eastern mindfulness practices. In one sense, the term dialectical refers to the goal of synthesizing the extreme opposites inherent in the rigid “black and white” thinking of many clients who have trouble regulating their emotions. “Dialectical” also applies to the core DBT principle of practicing acceptance strategies while implementing change strategies, in the process of reducing and modifying self-destructive behaviors.

This type of therapy is very support-oriented; it helps clients identify their strengths, build new skills, and increase their self-esteem. DBT focuses on cognitive issues by indentifying destructive thought patterns and replacing them with more neutral and accepting internal dialogues. It is designed to be a nonjudgmental collaboration, with the therapist and client working together to increase emotional awareness and understanding, minimize negative thought patterns and behaviors, and develop new coping and problem-solving skills.

The four modules of dialectical behavior therapy:

• Core mindfulness: The first of the four primary modules of DBT, this concept involves learning to observe one’s emotions, describe those emotions, and fully participate in present experiences. This skill forms the foundation for the other three modules, and is derived largely from eastern practices of living in the moment.
• Interpersonal effectiveness: The second core component of DBT teaches clients assertiveness skills and strategies to ask for what they need, set boundaries and say no when appropriate, and deal more effectively with interpersonal conflict.
• Distress tolerance: The third module entails clients developing nonjudgmental acceptance of themselves as well as their current situation. The focus is on learning to accept the present reality and to tolerate crises, and making use of strategies such as distraction, self-soothing, and improving the moment. Practicing these skills will increase the client’s ability to tolerate challenging events and environments.
• Emotion regulation: The final module of DBT consists of three main goals: to understand one’s emotions, reduce emotional vulnerability, and decrease emotional suffering. With this in mind, some of the specific skills taught in DBT include identifying and labeling emotions as well as evaluating: events that prompt the emotion, interpretations that trigger the emotion, how the emotion is experienced, how the emotion is expressed behaviorally, and the aftereffects of the emotion.

In the case of adolescent treatment, Dr. Alec Miller has adapted Dr. Linehan’s model to incorporate parents attending skills training groups with their teens. There is an additional module, “walking the middle path,” which focuses on helping parents and their children understand each other’s viewpoints and reduce conflict and invalidation.

The five functions:

Dialectical behavioral therapy was designed to fulfill five primary functions:

• Enhance behavioral capabilities: DBT helps clients develop important life skills that help them regulate emotions, experience the present moment, improve interpersonal interactions, and better tolerate distressing situations.
• Improve motivation to changes: DBT supports clients’ motivation to change by tracking and reducing detrimental behaviors, thereby increasing quality of life.
• Generalize capabilities to other environments: In order for the client to make progress, the skills learned in therapy must transfer to a wide variety of situations. This is accomplished through homework assignments and practicing skills. Telephone consultations also can be valuable in helping clients utilize these skills in their daily lives.
• Support client and therapist capabilities: DBT aims to maintain and build the capabilities of therapists through continued training and consultation-team meetings.
• Enhance therapist motivation: The DBT model encourages the use of support, validation, feedback, and encouragement between therapists to avoid burnout and improve their effectiveness.

Stages of treatment:

The course of DBT generally flows through three stages:

• Stage 1: This stage is primarily focused on eliminating or reducing serious behaviors, including self-injury, suicidal thinking, and aggression. Behaviors that interfere with therapy also are addressed, such as missing appointments and not returning phone calls.
• Stage 2: The client strives to increase quality of life and experience emotions in a less intense manner. The client continues to eliminate or decrease destructive behaviors, and address other issues or situations that are interfering with daily life, such as past trauma.
• Stage 3: The client is experiencing increased feelings of completeness, self-respect, and love.

Who can benefit:

Though DBT originally was developed to treat more severe issues, such as borderline personality disorder, suicidal behaviors, and self-harm, the treatment has become a widely respected method for treating clients who exhibit the following, much milder traits and issues:

• Difficulty with emotional regulation
• A high level of reactivity, with a slow return to baseline
• Impulsiveness with a tendency toward self-destructive behaviors
• An inclination toward extreme thinking, unable to perceive a middle ground
• A lack of sense of self, tending to feel incomplete or empty
• A history of instability in relationships, and difficulty with interpersonal interactions
• Extreme sensitivity, accompanied by rapid mood swings, anxiety, and depression
• Fears of abandonment and trouble with intimate relationships

Dialectical behavior therapy has proven to be a very effective tool to help people manage intense emotions, change negative thought patterns, and decrease self-destructive behaviors. Individual therapy sessions focus on current detrimental behaviors in the client’s life, while group sessions involve learning skills from the four modules: mindfulness, interpersonal effectiveness, distress tolerance, and emotion regulation.

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