Lorah Bess Hauf


Lorah Bess Hauf


Professions: Psychotherapist
License Status: I'm a licensed professional.
Primary Credential: Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor - LC1743
Billing and Insurance:
I am an in-network provider for:
  • Anthem
  • Blue Choice
  • Blue Cross Blue Shield (BCBS)
  • Cigna
  • GEHA Health Plans
  • Johns Hopkins Employer Health Programs
  • Priority Partners
  • United Behavioral Health


6525 N Charles St #136
Towson, Maryland 21204
143 Main St
Rear Building
Reisterstown, Maryland 21136

My Approach to Helping

Are you the parent of a teenager or child who is struggling with emotional or behavior problems? It can be frustrating to fight over every little thing or to watch your child harming themselves in so many ways. Sometimes the opposition comes from depression and anxiety, sometimes it comes from the struggle to adjust to changing family dynamics. You love your child and just want to share the few short years you have together before they are released into the world. Perhaps you feel like you have tried it all and therapy is your last hope? I've worked with families like yours for more than 15 years and I've learned some techniques that Do work. Are you ready for something a little bit different? You really can begin to enjoy your kids again.

I am the author of the book Managing Meltdowns, Answers For The Parent Who Has Tried It All. Behavioral problems often mask underlying sadness and fear. Take a look at The Zen Life Wellness Community website at the top right of the page to learn more about the many ways The Zen Life can help. Sign up for our monthly newsletter for helpful tips and information and email or call with any questions or concerns. The Zen Life also provides affordable, walk in acupuncture and our Zen Retreat Classes. Zen Art Class begins this spring for ages 8 - 108. Much like Paint Nights, this class uses coloring books and guided meditations to help calm the heart and mind. Friday nights from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm.

More Info About My Practice

Although I specialize with kids and teens who are acting out, about half of my practice has been with adults with a variety of concerns. Because of my family systems approach I have most enjoyed working with adults who have problems coping with their immediate or extended family. If you have ever felt emotionally blackmailed by a family member, I can help. Emotional blackmail is a fancy way of saying that someone uses guilt or threats to get their way. Does the classic "oh, don't worry about me, just go out and have a great time, I will just sit here by myself", sound familiar? If so, lets talk about how to better manage these relationships in a more mutually respectful, less frustrating, way. Call or email now for an appointment.

What I Love about Being a Psychotherapist

Kids who struggle with anxiety and fear have amazing imaginations. They are able to dream up monsters under the bed and bad guys sneaking in the window. I work with kids to harness their incredible imaginations and get control over whatever Boogie Man haunts their dreams. We use a wide variety of story telling techniques to create coping skills that they can use at home. These stories help with nightmares as well as waking fears.

Kids are highly suggestible. One scary story on the playground can lead to weeks of anxiety and fear. In therapy, kids learn to recognize the strengths they already have and apply them in unexpected ways. I absolutely love it when kids come bounding into the office with exciting news about the scary thing that they were able to manage because of the stories and tools that we worked on together.

Theoretical Influences that Guide My Work

My group practice in Reisterstown, The Zen Life Wellness Community is beginning a Zen Art Class in which participants learn how to calm their minds using coloring books and guided relaxation techniques often referred to as Mindful Meditation. If you are struggling with an inner voice full of criticism and doubt, come spend some time relaxing with us at The Zen Life and learn how to release stress naturally. Classes are $40 per session. We meet Friday nights from 6:30 pm - 8:00 pm. This is a silent group experience, much like a yoga class. Silence takes the pressure off of the social element and allows us to shift to an internal focus. Silence also means that we are able to open this class to adults and children from ages of 8 - 108. Class participants are encouraged to give written feedback at the end of the class but we will exit in silence to allow the state of calm to follow us into the weekend. During the summer months you might also like to walk across the street and listen to Music on Main Street which runs from Memorial Day through Labor Day. Take a look at the website www.tzlwc.com to learn more or just stop by and we will do our best to make room for you.

Importance of the Client-Therapist Alliance

The relationship between a client and therapist is actually the most important part of the entire process. No matter what "flavor" of therapy the experts study, it all comes down to the relationship between the therapist and client. Some people are most comfortable with a formal, doctor patient sort of relationship. Some people are looking for something more down to earth and informal. I am not the formal sort. This tends to work best with kids, teen and young adults but there are also a lot of adults out there who want to kick their shoes off and get comfy.

If you haven't found a therapist who fits with your personality I encourage you to keep looking until something clicks. Once you find that right person, make a commitment to the process. There will be misunderstanding and difficulties, because therapy is a relationship. Working through the road bumps in a safe, confidential environment, will help you work through those same issues in your day to day life. Therapy works, but no one said it was all sunshine and butterflies. Like any true metamorphosis, change can be painful, as well as beautiful, if you give it a chance.

Services I Provide

  • Creative Arts Therapy
  • Family Therapy
  • Group Therapy
  • Individual Therapy & Counseling
  • Marriage, Couples, or Relationship Counseling

Ages I Work With

  • Children
  • Teens
  • Adults


  • English

Client Concerns I Treat

  • Anger
  • Anxiety
  • Child and/or Adolescent Issues
  • Depression
  • Divorce / Divorce Adjustment
  • Oppositional and Defiant Behavior in Children and Teen
  • Panic
  • Parenting
  • Posttraumatic Stress / Trauma
  • Self-Harm
  • Suicidal Ideation and Behavior

Types of Therapy

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Family Systems Therapy
  • Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)
  • Mindfulness-Based Interventions
  • Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian Therapy)
  • Psychodynamic
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