My Approach to Helping
I have found tremendous fulfillment in working with couples finding their way back to each other. Many of us do not know how to maneuver through relationship problems and hit impasses that go nowhere causing anger and resentment to build and hopelessness and detachment to occur.
I can help you sort out what the root of the discord is and most importantly how to communicate with each other to come to understanding and a plan of action. It is very common to have problems with your partner and not know how to get out of the roadblocks in an effective way. Affairs and betrayal are common as a way to deal with the unhappiness. Even these dire consequences can be healed with a motivated couple.
I use the Enneagram and Attachment Style tools which will quickly uncover how you and your partner see the world differently due to your upbringing, your temperament and life experiences that have reinforced ineffective ways of relating. You will learn about yourself and your partner which will generate empathy --the most important ingredient in a partnership. This will move you towards mature love and growth for yourself and your relationship.