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Letter Writing as a Couples Activity to Increase Intimacy
September 6, 2016 .
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It’s far too common for newly married or new-parent couples to find themselves searching for more—more time together, more romance, more connection, more intimacy. Maybe, after the ... Read More
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6 Reasons You’re Actually Not Good at Multitasking
August 31, 2016 .
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It’s another day at work. You’re preparing an upcoming presentation, checking your email every few minutes, texting your best friend, planning the weekend, and scrolling through Facebook—all ... Read More
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Somatization: Is What I’m Feeling All in My Head?
August 30, 2016 .
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When I educate medical health professionals about the complex links between emotional functioning and physical health, many express a fear that their patients will respond to a referral ... Read More
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Making Excuses for Parents to Avoid ‘Bad Person’ Feelings
August 24, 2016 .
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“I feel like such a bad person.” I have heard this sad statement from so many people who come to treatment struggling with terrible feelings about themselves. Typically, these “bad ... Read More
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When Your Partner Hates Your Dog: Addressing Disputes Over Pets
August 23, 2016 .
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Devoted animal lovers sometimes say their pets are like children—and like children, a furry best friend can cause plenty of strife in a relationship. Whether it’s a disagreement ... Read More
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How Sport Psychology Helps Olympic Athletes Win Gold
August 22, 2016 .
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Olympic athletes train for years to reach their common goal: a medal at the Olympics. They push their bodies to the edge of human capability to stand on a podium and collect a gold, silver, ... Read More
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6 Essential Elements of a Strong and Healthy Marriage
August 18, 2016 .
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Marriage rates in the United States are declining, according to a Demographic Intelligence report released in May 2015. At 6.74 marriages for every 1,000 people, the current rate is the ... Read More
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7 Ways Therapists Get in the Way of Therapy
August 17, 2016 .
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We evaluate. That’s what we do. We ask question after question after question, and when we’re not asking questions, we’re noting answers to questions we haven’t asked. We’re so ... Read More
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The Price of Perfection: How Perfectionism Holds You Back
August 16, 2016 .
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As someone who works a lot with self-esteem, I’m always curious to know where people are with their feelings of self-worth and self-acceptance. Some enter my office reassuring me that ... Read More
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Between Therapy Sessions: When You Can’t Seem to Do the Work
August 16, 2016 .
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Change is hard. We resist it, maintaining our longstanding behaviors and belief systems, because familiar is comfortable. We typically seek psychotherapy when our old ways lead to problems ... Read More
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How to Deal with Disrespectful Children and Adolescents
August 15, 2016 .
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If you pay close attention to social media, music messages, and news trends, you’d be forgiven for thinking disrespectful and rude behavior from children and adolescents is on the rise. ... Read More
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Using EMDR to Find Your ‘Safe Place’ in Trauma Recovery
August 15, 2016 .
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Life can be stressful for anyone, but for people dealing with the negative effects of trauma on top of everyday life, elevated stress levels can be much more common. One course of treatment ... Read More