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To Label, or Not to Label
March 13, 2014 .
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When you go to your doctor for some problem you are having, there is no question that you want an answer to what it is. Not only does it ease your mind because you have clarity, but it ... Read More
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Feeling Good Yet? Seven Ways to Boost Endorphins
February 21, 2014 .
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Known as the body’s natural “feel-good” chemicals, endorphins stimulate feelings of pleasure, well-being, and pain relief, making them an essential component in a balanced, happy ... Read More
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Conflict and the Thinker/Feeler Struggle in Relationships
February 20, 2014 .
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The thinking/feeling dichotomy was first connected to individual differences in psychological types (personalities) by Carl Jung. It is used in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator’s personality ... Read More
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Remembering Martin S. Bergmann: Psychoanalyst, Actor, Friend
February 7, 2014 .
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Professor Martin S. Bergmann died January 22, 2014, at a little less than 101 years old. In style, he was the quintessential European gentleman of a certain age and class. Although his ... Read More
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Depression and Phytotherapy: Healing with Plants and Herbs
January 9, 2014 .
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There is a range of both situational and organic causes of depression. Genetics can also play a role in depression; new studies in something called epigenetics have proven that it only ... Read More
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EMDR and the Role of State-Change Skills
January 3, 2014 .
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My work with people often drives me to explore themes that are currently showing up in my counseling practice. If you are a counselor, you know what I mean. You may have many clients or ... Read More
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Inner Work: Reconnecting with the Soul’s Purpose
December 18, 2013 .
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We all have many wounds. Broken hearts, shattered dreams, abuse, and trauma all leave battle scars that may not be outwardly apparent to others, but can cause a lifetime or even generations ... Read More
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Could I Be the Reason Therapy Is Going Nowhere? December 6, 2013 . 7 Comments
Thank you for your letter. I’m sorry to hear that you aren’t experiencing the therapy you’re receiving as helpful, and I hope that I can provide some assistance. I’m going to start ... Read More
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Subject Yourself or Protect Yourself?
November 27, 2013 .
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Recently, my son told me of a situation he had decided to avoid. To sum it up, he said, “I’d rather protect than subject.” I thought this encompassed many lessons in a ... Read More
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What’s So Bad about Feeling Sad?
October 23, 2013 .
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Recently I watched a YouTube video of comedian Louis CK being interviewed by Conan O’Brien in which he was discussing his reasons for not allowing his kids have cell phones. It was really ... Read More
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Enabling 101: How Love Becomes Fear and Help Becomes Control
October 18, 2013 .
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The term “enabler” has gained widespread recognition and use in popular culture and media over the past several decades. It is a label that can result in a great deal of anxiety and ... Read More
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Caught in a Whirlpool: The Role You Play in Your Own Rescue
October 16, 2013 .
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I was not far from the shore in the fickle, warm Gulf of Mexico, a place I love. I was swimming, enjoying the sun, feeling deeply at peace. I loved the smell of the water, the feel of the ... Read More