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The Effects of Incarceration on Mental Health
March 15, 2013 .
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Although jail time might seem like a distant possibility for most people, incarceration rates in the United States are steadily rising. One study published in the journal Pediatrics found ... Read More
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Counseling Issues for Arranged Marriages
March 14, 2013 .
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remain relatively rare in the United States, but are a common cultural practice in many countries. As many as 55% of all marriages globally are arranged, most of them in South Asia, Africa, ... Read More
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Personal Responsibility: The 1% That Is You Is Where We Begin
March 13, 2013 .
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One of the aspects of existential psychotherapy that I most value is the idea of personal responsibility. On one hand, we humans are free to live our lives the way we choose (within reason), ... Read More
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Narcissism: Inside the Lonely, Envious World of the ‘Perfect Ones’
March 13, 2013 .
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Healthy narcissism is an accurate picture of the self properly valued, without shame and without overblown estimations. But most of the time when we talk about narcissism we’re thinking ... Read More
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Dr. Drew, Dr. Phil, and ‘Rehab TV’ Draw Therapists’ Ire
March 12, 2013 .
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The recent news that troubled country singer Mindy McCready took her own life has thrust the debate about the efficacy and ethics of “rehab” television shows and the people ... Read More
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Blaming Your Parents Hurts You Most
March 11, 2013 .
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Some people come to therapy full of negativity and anger toward parents whom they hold responsible for the way they feel and the lives they live. For example, they might explain their difficulties ... Read More
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A Cousin May Have Molested My Sister Decades Ago. Should I Let It Go? March 8, 2013 . 15 Comments
Thank you for writing in. This sounds like a very complicated situation fraught with the potential for significant consequences for many people, some of whom you love dearly. I’m ... Read More
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Exorcisms and Psychology: What’s Really Going On?
March 8, 2013 .
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Exorcisms occupy a hallowed place in horror movies, with some claiming to be “based on a true story”—attracting mass audiences, rampant skepticism, and much discussion. But the ancient ... Read More
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Losing Both Parents by Age 27: How I Began to Heal
March 5, 2013 .
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I woke up to my dad staring blankly at the wall the morning of October 14, 2004. It was the day before my 23rd birthday. I knew this day was coming, but nothing would prepare me to wake ... Read More
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The Tyrannical Culture of Positivity
March 4, 2013 .
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“Take a look at the bright side,” we tell our loved ones when they’re feeling down. “See the cup half full, not half empty.” We help lift our friends by saying, “Cheer up! Don’t ... Read More
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Learn, Bless, and Release March 4, 2013 . 7 Comments
At first glance, the injunction to bless and release sounds just beautiful, and so evolved. On reflection, it is missing a crucial component: learning from the experience before you let ... Read More
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Five Myths About Polyamory and Monogamish Relationships March 1, 2013 . 13 Comments
Several years ago, sex advice columnist Dan Savage coined the term “monogamish” to refer to long-term committed relationships that bend the rules of monogamy with the consent of both ... Read More