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When Parents Project Their Appearance Issues onto Children
April 3, 2015 .
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I recently overheard a young woman bemoaning that her 2-year-old was “too chubby” so she was going to put her on a diet. This started me thinking about people who are unaware ... Read More
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Making Sense of Sensitivity: How to Help Your Anxious Child
March 31, 2015 .
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These days, most of us live with some degree of stress. For kids, between their homework, friends, after-school activities, sports, and worries about getting into college, it’s a whole ... Read More
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Help! I’m Afraid to Talk to My Therapist about Self-Injury March 27, 2015 . 12 Comments
You are feeling frightened and ashamed to talk to your counselor about your problems with self-injury and other “bad habits.” You might worry that your counselor will feel critical ... Read More
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How to Keep Intimacy Alive After the Children Arrive
March 26, 2015 .
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One of the primary obstacles couples attempt to overcome in therapy is feeling emotionally disconnected. Life tends to get in the way, with careers, kids, home upkeep, and family activities ... Read More
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Parenting While Depressed: 10 Things to Remember
March 25, 2015 .
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Parenting is difficult enough when you feel fantastic, but when you’re struggling with depression, it can seem downright impossible. It need not be so, though. Experiencing depression ... Read More
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Idealize, Devalue, Discard: The Dizzying Cycle of Narcissism
March 25, 2015 .
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The relationship cycle typical of extreme narcissistic abuse generally follows a pattern. Individuals in emotionally abusive relationships experience a dizzying whirlwind that includes ... Read More
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4 Ways a Breakup or Divorce Can Affect a Couple’s Friends
March 24, 2015 .
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Most breakups are painful—not just for the couple, but also for those standing in the surrounding blast zone. We often hear about how divorce can affect the immediate family, but we rarely ... Read More
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Insidious Oppression: 10 Common Racial Microaggressions
March 23, 2015 .
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As we covered in last month’s article on microaggressions, they are often subtle, racial insults by well-intentioned people. And they’re experienced by people of color on a regular, ... Read More
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Help! I Believe My Father-in-Law Is Abusing My Daughter March 20, 2015 . 6 Comments
Of course you are concerned! Anytime we see a behavior like that in a child and she or he is unable or unwilling to explain the change, we fear the worst. Your primary responsibility is ... Read More
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Good Mood Foods to Help Fight Depression, Stress, and More
March 20, 2015 .
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Stress, depression, and anxiety are complex experiences caused by a variety of factors, including lifestyle, brain chemistry, a history of trauma, and health. Research increasingly points ... Read More
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The Shameful Fallout of Parental Rejection for LGBT Kids
March 19, 2015 .
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The foster care system has a disproportionate number of LGBT youth in its care—the result of so many being abandoned by their parents. This often happens at a time when children most ... Read More
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8 Psychological Tips for Being More Confident
March 18, 2015 .
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Confidence is something we all struggle with from time to time. We want to feel sure of ourselves, but those little whispers of self-doubt show up whenever we want to put ourselves out ... Read More