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A Healing Approach to Conflict in Intimate Relationships January 6, 2014 . 12 Comments
“In love we face challenges and in embracing these challenges, conflicts, and dark places, there is immense potential for transformation.” – J. Welwood When conflict happens in ... Read More
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Anger in Relationships: Owning Yours, Softening Your Partner’s September 19, 2013 . 39 Comments
Anger is not a sign that your relationship is doomed to fail. Anger is an emotion that we all experience, and it signifies that something has to be done. Anger makes you aware that there ... Read More
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The Yoga Prison Project: Lessons on Both Sides of the Bars September 18, 2013 . 8 Comments
I like to volunteer—it’s a way to give back, and frankly, I think I get more than I give. I’ve done many different kinds of things: baked brownies for the homeless, taught chair yoga ... Read More
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Understanding Misunderstandings: Did You Hear That Correctly? September 9, 2013 . 4 Comments
Imagine you are in a conversation and—bam!—the other person just said something that is not sitting well with you. Were you attacked? Were you put down? Is the other person jealous? ... Read More
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Can Anger Reduce Your Risk for Heart Disease? September 3, 2013 . 3 Comments
People who are prone to anger can experience high rates of blood pressure and poor physical health. However, according to the results of a recent study, anger may actually protect you from ... Read More
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Letting Go of Resentment and Anger As a Caregiver August 22, 2013 . 19 Comments
The work of caregivers is difficult, at best. This is particularly true for those who provide care before they start the workday and after they come home in the evening. I am often amazed ... Read More
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When Walking Away Is Standing Your Ground August 21, 2013 . 12 Comments
You’ve probably seen videos of big, furious guys going after little guys. It doesn’t look like a fair fight at first, but there can be surprises—and sometimes the little guys win. ... Read More
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Finding Love Through Laughter May 31, 2013 . 4 Comments
In my work with gay couples over the years, I have noticed an interesting phenomenon that occurs when a relationship is on the rocks. For most lesbian, gay, bisexual, or trans (LGBT) couples ... Read More
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Talking about Racially Discriminating Experiences May Perpetuate Distress May 30, 2013 . 2 Comments
When someone experiences a particularly distressing experience, they often feel better when they are able to share their feelings with others. However, according to research from a new ... Read More
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My Way or the Highway: Is Control Controlling Your Relationship? May 24, 2013 . 9 Comments
Partners come together with unique and distinct personalities. Usually, two people in a relationship have many differences and similarities. But when someone in the relationship, or worse ... Read More
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Deceptive Affection: Is It Really Bad for a Relationship? May 20, 2013 . 2 Comments
Have you ever thrown a casual “I miss you,” or “I wish you were here” to your partner when, in that moment, you did not miss them or wish they were with you? Spouses and partners ... Read More
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HELP! Our Family is Addicted to Yelling May 17, 2013 . 10 Comments
Shouting, yelling, screaming. Nearly all parents have done it; nearly all children age 10 and under have heard it. In small doses, such as in emergencies, yelling is not believed to be ... Read More