Love is Not Enough: When Traumatized Clients Push the Therapist Away
Presented by Robert Muller, PhD, CPsych on 02-01-2013 at 9 a.m. Pacific
The therapeutic relationship is at the heart of any successful therapy. We all know that empathy, listening, and being attuned to the emotional needs fo the person in therapy makes for a close therapeutic relationship and a strong alliance. But what happens when the traumatized person cannot tolerate closeness? Or when the individual acts out and pushes the therapist away? How can the clinician respond to such enactments? With individuals who adopt a self-protective, help-rejecting stance, psychotherapy can be difficult.
Using attachment theory, Dr. Muller describes transference patterns seen with these hard-to-treat people, including verbal and nonverbal interactions. Using a relational, psychodynamic approach, he considers difficulties such people have in accepting therapist empathy, and the defensive reactions that follow. He examines ways to work with feelings of vulnerability and distancing maneuvers. Therapy techniques include:
- Resisting the temptation to back away
- Noticing subtle expressions of vulnerability
- Noticing verbal and nonverbal emotional responses (such as covering-up, taking-back, and reactions-to prior expressions of vulnerability)
- Addressing feelings in the moment
This workshop focuses on techniques Dr. Muller developed specifically for this population, included in his award-winning academic book, Trauma and the Avoidant Client: Attachment-Based Strategies for Healing (2010, W.W. Norton). This presentation focuses on clinical technique. Theory is complemented by case examples.
This web conference is advanced instructional level and designed to help clinicians:
- Recognize expressions of vulnerability and distancing maneuvers in their work with avoidant trauma patients;
- Consider the ways empathy can be a “double-edged sword” when working with this population;
- Apply attachment theory and the therapeutic relationship as a productive force in the treatment;
- Recognize characteristics of avoidant attachment among adults with trauma histories.
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Meet the Presenter
Robert Muller, PhD, CPsych
Robert T. Muller, PhD, CPsych, joined the faculty of the University of Massachusetts after completing his clinical fellowship at Harvard University. Dr. Muller has been teaching, practicing, and supervising in psychotherapy, trauma, and attachment theory throughout his career. He founded a trauma center focused on providing help to the under-serviced community. He has written many articles, grants, book chapters, and has authored Trauma and the Avoidant Client: Attachment-Based Strategies for Healing, published by Norton Press. You can read some of his writings on his blog, The Trauma and Attachment Report. Dr. Muller has had an active practice for over twenty years and teaches full-day workshops. He is a sought-after speaker and is on the faculty as an Associate Professor of Clinical Psychology at York University. He holds a position as a supervisor for Hincks-Dellcrest Treatment Center. For more information about Dr. Muller and his work, please visit http://www.yorku.ca/rmuller
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- GoodTherapy.org is Approved by the American Psychological Association to sponsor continuing education for psychologists. GoodTherapy.org maintains responsibility for this program and its content. APA approval applies to all events listed after May 2011.
- GoodTherapy.org has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 6380. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. GoodTherapy.org is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs.
- This course has been approved by GoodTherapy.org, as a NAADAC Approved Education Provider, for educational credits. NAADAC Provider #135463. GoodTherapy.org is responsible for all aspects of their programming.
- GoodTherapy.org, provider #1352, is approved as a provider for social work continuing education by the Association of Social Work Boards (ASWB) www.aswb.org through the Approved Continuing Education (ACE) Program. GoodTherapy.org maintains responsibility for the program. ASWB Approval Period: 03/30/2016 – 03/30/2019. Social workers should contact their regulatory board to determine course approval for continuing education credits. Social workers participating in this course will receive 2 clinical continuing education clock hours.
- GoodTherapy.org, SW CPE is recognized by the New York State Education Department's State Board for Social Work as an approved provider of continuing education for licensed social workers #0395.