Shalini Mongia, M.S.

Shalini Mongia, M.S.
Profession(s): Marriage & Family Therapy, Social Work, Social Work
License Status:  I'm a registered professional.

My Approach to Helping

Therapy is about change. Changing negative patterns that don't work, while increasing your level of happiness and peace of mind. My goal as a therapist is to provide effective, affordable counseling services for adults and adolescents, in a comfortable space where you may safely explore the patterns and concerns in your life. I work with individuals, couples, families, groups, children, and teens. My office hours are Monday through Saturday, days and evenings. People often seek therapy in order to change something in their lives, perhaps from feeling "stuck" in their relationships, careers, behaviors, feelings and thoughts. I am confident that positive change is always possible and that we all have the ability to make positive change happen. However, sometimes we need a little help getting there. I believe that if you keep doing the same things, you keep getting the same things. The power to change your patterns, your thoughts, your level of satisfaction and happiness, and your life is....entirely up to you. I offer a non-judgmental, nurturing, and supportive approach in my work. My style is interactive, goal-oriented, and my therapeutic orientation is eclectic with an emphasis on CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) and Attachment Therapy. I emphasize the relevance of changing negative thought patterns, and help you identify ways of doing so. Whatever your goals, both the treatment plan and my therapeutic style will be specific to your needs. Together, we will examine the ways you think & feel about situations in your life, and how you behave in response to these situations...while increasing self-awareness and learning more effective skills to help create the life you would rather be living. During our first phone conversation, we will briefly discuss what has brought you to consider therapy at this time. This is so that we can make sure that I'm the right therapist for you, or help refer you to someone who is. I can also answer any initial questions you may have about my experience, your concerns, or about therapy in general. If it seems appropriate to move forward, we will discuss the fee and schedule an initial appointment. I offer flexible office hours that include evenings and weekends. Contact my office at (925) 979-9839 to discuss if working together would be a mutually good fit. I look forward to hearing from you.
 

Services I Provide

  • Individual Therapy & Counseling
  • Marriage, Couples, or Relationship Counseling
  • Family Therapy
  • Group Therapy
  • Coaching
  • Consultation
  • Distance or Phone Therapy
  • Other
 

Ages I Work With

  • Children
  • Teens
  • Adults
  • Elders
 

Languages I Speak

  • English
  • Hindi/Urdu
  • Punjabi
 

Groups I Work With

  • South Asian (Indian, Pakistani) Middle Eastern
 

Therapy Approaches I Use

  • Anger Management
  • Client-Directed Outcome-Informed Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy /REBT
  • Coherence Therapy / Depth-Oriented Brief Therapy
  • Contemplative Psychotherapy
  • Emotion Focused Couples Therapy
  • Family Systems Therapy
  • Focusing
  • Guided Therapeutic Imagery
  • Imago Relationship Therapy
  • Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy
  • Interpersonal Psychotherapy
  • Mindfulness Based Approaches
  • Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy
  • Object Relations
  • Play Therapy
  • Positive Psychology
  • Positive Psychotherapy
  • Process Oriented Psychology
  • Psychodynamic
  • Reality Therapy
  • Relational Psychotherapy
  • Relationship Enhancement Therapy
  • Self Psychology
  • Solution Focused Therapy
  • Somatic Experiencing
  • Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
 
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Locations & Maps
Office 1: 
1519 Contra Costa Blvd
Pleasant Hill, CA 94523 United States
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Office 2: 
Fremont, CA 94538 United States
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Concerns & Issues I Help With

  • Abuse / Survivors of Abuse
  • Abandonment and/or Fear of
  • Abortion / Post Abortion Issues
  • Academic Concerns
  • Addictions (Drug & Alcohol)
  • Addictions (Other)
  • Adjusting to Change / Life Transitions
  • Adoption / Reunion Issues
  • Aggression
  • Agoraphobia
  • Anger
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment Issues
  • Bereavement
  • Bipolar
  • Blended Family Issues
  • Career Choice
  • Caregiver Issues/Stress
  • Child and/or Adolescent Issues
  • Codependency / Dependency
  • Communication Problems
  • Compulsions
  • Control Issues
  • Creative Blocks
  • Depression
  • Divorce / Divorce Adjustment
  • Domestic Violence
  • Eating & Food Issues
  • Emptiness
  • Emotional Abuse
  • Emotional Intelligence
  • Emotional Overwhelm
  • Family Problems
  • Family of Origin Issues
  • Forgiveness
  • Grief & Loss
  • Habits
  • Identity Issues
  • Impulsivity
  • Inadequacy
  • Inattention
  • Infidelity / Affair Recovery
  • Irritability
  • Isolation (Emotional & Social)
  • Life Purpose/Meaning/Inner-Guidance
  • Men's Issues
  • Midlife Transition
  • Mood Disturbance
  • Mood Swings
  • Multicultural Concerns
  • Obsessions
  • Oppositional & Defiant Behavior
  • Panic
  • Parenting
  • Phobias / Fears
  • Physical Abuse
  • Post Partum Depression
  • Post Traumatic Stress
  • Prejudice / Discrimination
  • Relationships & Marriage
  • Religion
  • Self-Care
  • Self-Confidence
  • Self-Criticism
  • Self-Doubt
  • Self-Esteem
  • Self-Harm (Cutting, etc.)
  • Self-Love
  • Sensitivity to Criticism
  • Sex / Sexuality Issues
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Shame
  • Social Phobia/Anxiety
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Suicidal (Thoughts, Feelings, and Behaviors)
  • Suspiciousness
  • Trauma
  • Trust Issues
  • Values Clarification
  • Violence
  • Women's Issues
  • Workplace Issues
  • Worry
  • Worthlessness
  • Other - not listed here